So then what is happening is mom works nights and kid goes to day care during the day while mom sleeps. This isnt a material change for custody. It may be a material change for ss/cs but you dont have off set.
You really should focus on your motion for 50/50 and stop getting in the weeds about all the other stuff. Great that mom is working but even with off set you dont get to dictate where kid spends time. Its no different than if you had kid on a pd day but had to work and put them in a day camp. Would you say to mom “ok she can skip day camp and go see you that day”? More than likely not.
All of these little nit picky things make you look unreasonable and confrontational. Focus on the argument that parenting time should be increased because you are a good parent, there are no issues, child is getting older and its a good thing. When you start adding grandma might smoke and mom works nights and the daycare provider is mean etc then the judge will roll their eyes and hate your case.
You really should focus on your motion for 50/50 and stop getting in the weeds about all the other stuff. Great that mom is working but even with off set you dont get to dictate where kid spends time. Its no different than if you had kid on a pd day but had to work and put them in a day camp. Would you say to mom “ok she can skip day camp and go see you that day”? More than likely not.
All of these little nit picky things make you look unreasonable and confrontational. Focus on the argument that parenting time should be increased because you are a good parent, there are no issues, child is getting older and its a good thing. When you start adding grandma might smoke and mom works nights and the daycare provider is mean etc then the judge will roll their eyes and hate your case.
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