I have a bit of a situation. My husband and I are planning to seperate in February. I have been married for almost 6 years now and the whole time that we have been married, I haven't been involved in any of the finances within our marriage. He has always done all the banking and everything. I don't even have a bank account with my name on it. (Since I work from home for cash I never needed one). No credit cards or nothing. He has recently admitted to lying to me about different financial matters. And I've notice that he has been spending a bit more lately, (all put on credit).
Our plans are to sell the house, and whatever we have in our pockets, (or his pocket) will pay off our other depts and then the remainder will be split down the middle.
I have asked him to start involving me in the finances...i.e. showing me statements, all our depts, etc. He has brushed it off. The bottom line is that I don't trust him at all anymore with the finances, and I don't know if I can legally make him get me involved in all this, or if he can just keep on screwing me.
Does anybody know anything about this? It would be a huge help.
Our plans are to sell the house, and whatever we have in our pockets, (or his pocket) will pay off our other depts and then the remainder will be split down the middle.
I have asked him to start involving me in the finances...i.e. showing me statements, all our depts, etc. He has brushed it off. The bottom line is that I don't trust him at all anymore with the finances, and I don't know if I can legally make him get me involved in all this, or if he can just keep on screwing me.
Does anybody know anything about this? It would be a huge help.
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