Hi everyone
I am new to the group but have been lurking for a while now. I'm going through a divorce and it has been going on two years. Two of the most difficult years of my life!
My husband left me and began a new relationship with another woman very quickly after we separated. They have been together ever since and appear to have a "serious" relationship. We have two children together one who is 19 and living on his own and we also have a little girl who is 6.
My husband got laid off from his job about 6 months ago and he and his new girlfriend moved out of province and both took employment in another. Currently within the divorce process we have only one outstanding issue; custody and access.
He is requesting visitation and access with our daughter when he comes home during the summer and christmas. He wants her for overnights. This is driving me insane! I do not feel that he should get her for overnights as he will be staying with HER family when they visit home during these times. This means that my daughter will be sleeping at their house and with the new girlfriend around.
I am having so much difficulty getting through this divorce. I have been so depressed! I am terrified that this will have a negative impact on my daughter and quite frankly, I do not want her having overnights when the new girl is present. I have a meeting with my lawyer this week. I have no idea what he will say about this. I thought I'd ask you all if you've had similar experience with this type of situation and also if anyone knows how courts look at this kind of thing. Would the judge take my worries into consideration? Or would he think that I am just jealous and trying to keep my daughter from my husband because of the new girlfriend?
Also, I have a legal aid lawyer. How much can a legal aid lawyer do for me? Are there limits to what I can do in fighting things in court?
Please Help me prepare for this!!! I am so scared.
Beth
I am new to the group but have been lurking for a while now. I'm going through a divorce and it has been going on two years. Two of the most difficult years of my life!
My husband left me and began a new relationship with another woman very quickly after we separated. They have been together ever since and appear to have a "serious" relationship. We have two children together one who is 19 and living on his own and we also have a little girl who is 6.
My husband got laid off from his job about 6 months ago and he and his new girlfriend moved out of province and both took employment in another. Currently within the divorce process we have only one outstanding issue; custody and access.
He is requesting visitation and access with our daughter when he comes home during the summer and christmas. He wants her for overnights. This is driving me insane! I do not feel that he should get her for overnights as he will be staying with HER family when they visit home during these times. This means that my daughter will be sleeping at their house and with the new girlfriend around.
I am having so much difficulty getting through this divorce. I have been so depressed! I am terrified that this will have a negative impact on my daughter and quite frankly, I do not want her having overnights when the new girl is present. I have a meeting with my lawyer this week. I have no idea what he will say about this. I thought I'd ask you all if you've had similar experience with this type of situation and also if anyone knows how courts look at this kind of thing. Would the judge take my worries into consideration? Or would he think that I am just jealous and trying to keep my daughter from my husband because of the new girlfriend?
Also, I have a legal aid lawyer. How much can a legal aid lawyer do for me? Are there limits to what I can do in fighting things in court?
Please Help me prepare for this!!! I am so scared.
Beth
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