Some back story:
Discovered this week that D12 needs glasses and is fully coverered under ex's benefits.
Sent an email letting him know that I would cover the intial cost of the glasses if he could submit the claim and issue the refund to me.
Received a barrage of emails about how I'm an a$$hole and the worst human being on the planet. Not the first time he's called me this, probably won't be the last. Not the reason I'm ticked.
In the course of the emails, he stated that my actions are causing animosity between he and the kids because he can't "have a life" and it is mine and their faults. Ok fine, blame me if you want', but it sounds like he's now blaming the kids and taking it out on them.
Additionally, he has refused to make a benefits claim for D12's glasses.
Any thoughts? How do I proceed from here?
- D12 & S8
- Divorced for 8 years after short duration marriage
- Ex is 3 months behind on support payments
- Most recent payment bounced
- Support payments are below guidelines
- Ex will be losing his job (plant closure) some time this year
- I have sole custody
- Ex has EOW
Discovered this week that D12 needs glasses and is fully coverered under ex's benefits.
Sent an email letting him know that I would cover the intial cost of the glasses if he could submit the claim and issue the refund to me.
Received a barrage of emails about how I'm an a$$hole and the worst human being on the planet. Not the first time he's called me this, probably won't be the last. Not the reason I'm ticked.
In the course of the emails, he stated that my actions are causing animosity between he and the kids because he can't "have a life" and it is mine and their faults. Ok fine, blame me if you want', but it sounds like he's now blaming the kids and taking it out on them.
Additionally, he has refused to make a benefits claim for D12's glasses.
Any thoughts? How do I proceed from here?
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