Hey everyone,
Just hoping for some opinions here regarding my situation...Im not certain where else to post this so I thought I would post here.
Im going into court, a first time father whos son was born under extremely bad circumstances.
Im scared as hell as to the outcome and I would like to see what people have to say.
Have completed a psychological evaluation, I listed all my fears regarding her anger, lying, manipulation and behaviour. Her complaints were things like she was worried my mom was going to kidnap the child and turn him against her, my friend assaulted her (she also claimed he got her pregnant at one point and he is willing to talk to a psychologist about her), my mom has physically tried to take the child from her and she called to get a restraining order but then apparently had a "change of heart"
Psychologist came back that joint sessions were a challenge for her, regarding her use of inflammatory language, disrespectfulness and even said she is unable to take responsibility for her actions. As for me she just listed I was calm and respectful. Also listed that she had denied access and broke a court order.
We are going into court in about a month, heres what i am worried about;
I admitted (although i should have just lied through my teeth) that i am a recreational marijuana user, nothing major, and I consume alcohol on 2-3 nights per week (again I feel misconstrued as i stated that it was usually Friday/Saturday however there was the odd time Id go out for wings during the week), and admitted to trying cocaine twice just after high school. However this was listed as "a history of cocaine use", and its been over 10 years since I even tried it. Although i should mention I submitted a clean drug test to the psychologist to include in her report to the court. She refused to take one when i said I would.
I dont feel this was at all representative of what I actually stated to her (other than the pot) and now I am scared as hell as to what will happen.
She tried running me out of my sons life before the baby was even born saying things like she had plenty of reasons not to want me involved(I have saved these texts), and also has been doing things like switching my parenting time around, sending me inflammatory emails, wont let anyone meet her parents. She also was telling me her lawyer says I get supervised visitation, which she was enforcing, without even a judge handing it down.
She is in her 30's, lives with her parents and is unemployed. She also has a child from a previous relationship in which she claims the father "abandoned her"...but after her trying to get rid of me Im not so sure.
Its been a long fight to get where I am currently, and Im tired of fighting, I am not a danger to my son.
I have a clean drug test and I rarely consume over a six pack when I do drink.
What do you guys think will happen?
Just hoping for some opinions here regarding my situation...Im not certain where else to post this so I thought I would post here.
Im going into court, a first time father whos son was born under extremely bad circumstances.
Im scared as hell as to the outcome and I would like to see what people have to say.
Have completed a psychological evaluation, I listed all my fears regarding her anger, lying, manipulation and behaviour. Her complaints were things like she was worried my mom was going to kidnap the child and turn him against her, my friend assaulted her (she also claimed he got her pregnant at one point and he is willing to talk to a psychologist about her), my mom has physically tried to take the child from her and she called to get a restraining order but then apparently had a "change of heart"
Psychologist came back that joint sessions were a challenge for her, regarding her use of inflammatory language, disrespectfulness and even said she is unable to take responsibility for her actions. As for me she just listed I was calm and respectful. Also listed that she had denied access and broke a court order.
We are going into court in about a month, heres what i am worried about;
I admitted (although i should have just lied through my teeth) that i am a recreational marijuana user, nothing major, and I consume alcohol on 2-3 nights per week (again I feel misconstrued as i stated that it was usually Friday/Saturday however there was the odd time Id go out for wings during the week), and admitted to trying cocaine twice just after high school. However this was listed as "a history of cocaine use", and its been over 10 years since I even tried it. Although i should mention I submitted a clean drug test to the psychologist to include in her report to the court. She refused to take one when i said I would.
I dont feel this was at all representative of what I actually stated to her (other than the pot) and now I am scared as hell as to what will happen.
She tried running me out of my sons life before the baby was even born saying things like she had plenty of reasons not to want me involved(I have saved these texts), and also has been doing things like switching my parenting time around, sending me inflammatory emails, wont let anyone meet her parents. She also was telling me her lawyer says I get supervised visitation, which she was enforcing, without even a judge handing it down.
She is in her 30's, lives with her parents and is unemployed. She also has a child from a previous relationship in which she claims the father "abandoned her"...but after her trying to get rid of me Im not so sure.
Its been a long fight to get where I am currently, and Im tired of fighting, I am not a danger to my son.
I have a clean drug test and I rarely consume over a six pack when I do drink.
What do you guys think will happen?
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