Hi - ok so my "ex" has stopped responding in the communications book, talking to one another is impossible - when he doesn't get his way, his very verbal (no witnesses of course) - although he super pleasant when he needs to cancel on his visitation. The problem is that he tells our 9 year old when the next time they will see one another. He totally changes his idea about his access - yes I'm going to have the lawyer put in for an access schedule - this whole thing is wrong on many levels
now with hardly 5 months from real seperation - as in my daughter knowing about it - he has brought the girlfriend into the picture - apparently it's been a few months and she just mentioned it - poor thing felt awful she "spilt the beans" - what an awful burden, plus his usual think only for himself attitute - am I the only one who thinks it's a bit early to have another person in the picture - in regards to my daughter knowing about it - not only that - she';s even met the girlfriends parents' - in other words the ex still can't handle one on one time with our daughter.
I'm not asking her any questions, except "are you comfortable, remember safety rules and that's it"
it's just a black hole, she's only 9 and a girl - I know her teachers, principal, friends parents and grandparents - no this is not about control but about being in tune and proactive and protective of a minor.
Opinions?
now with hardly 5 months from real seperation - as in my daughter knowing about it - he has brought the girlfriend into the picture - apparently it's been a few months and she just mentioned it - poor thing felt awful she "spilt the beans" - what an awful burden, plus his usual think only for himself attitute - am I the only one who thinks it's a bit early to have another person in the picture - in regards to my daughter knowing about it - not only that - she';s even met the girlfriends parents' - in other words the ex still can't handle one on one time with our daughter.
I'm not asking her any questions, except "are you comfortable, remember safety rules and that's it"
it's just a black hole, she's only 9 and a girl - I know her teachers, principal, friends parents and grandparents - no this is not about control but about being in tune and proactive and protective of a minor.
Opinions?
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