My W and I are going through a divorce and child custody issues. Years back we had arguments about her family who tried to control our marriage. I didn't allow that and my wife would go wild on me. But once we 2-3 times she called police lying i hit her FIRST. She is one of those people who would fight you now and 5 minutes later like nothing happened.
But she called police 2-3 times and they heard both of our stories and on he request had her removed from the home, which she would return the same day.
I don't remember all but I know she said I hit her. I said she hit me first and I hit her back. I remember they told us one time to work things out.
Then one time my brother called the police when we had a fight. As usual she would always cry when police comes, but later told me she cried because she was scared because she called them for no reason. Even her mom told her once she shouldn't behave like that. I was never charges or anything like that.
When my brother called the cops I know they noted in the record that I wasn't very friendly with them. Of course I wasn't. They came ans saw her as the victim when she fist jumped on me and started hitting me. But the cop did tell me to give her a couple of days to "cool off" and then contact her to get back.
Then once she pushed my mom against the wall and other time tried to hit our baby on the back so hard and my mom put her hand to protect the child. My mom's hand was sore for hours. Sometimes she would hit me and I had marks and my family would ask what is that, i said nothing. they said she is hitting you. they knew. but for various reasons I didn't want to do anything about it. Once she scratched me with a screwdriver.
I think she may press charges. Of course to get the custody.
After she left 1 year ago we were very close and even spend a "night" together.
The child is under my care 90% of the time. I literally beg her to spend more time with the child (which I have on my text messages) but she says she can't because there is another toddler in their household and the 2 of them fight a lot. She took him yesterday and asked me to pick him up tomorrow. I also have proof that she said I am a good father.
But obviously, my anxiety didn't fail to interfere.
But she called police 2-3 times and they heard both of our stories and on he request had her removed from the home, which she would return the same day.
I don't remember all but I know she said I hit her. I said she hit me first and I hit her back. I remember they told us one time to work things out.
Then one time my brother called the police when we had a fight. As usual she would always cry when police comes, but later told me she cried because she was scared because she called them for no reason. Even her mom told her once she shouldn't behave like that. I was never charges or anything like that.
When my brother called the cops I know they noted in the record that I wasn't very friendly with them. Of course I wasn't. They came ans saw her as the victim when she fist jumped on me and started hitting me. But the cop did tell me to give her a couple of days to "cool off" and then contact her to get back.
Then once she pushed my mom against the wall and other time tried to hit our baby on the back so hard and my mom put her hand to protect the child. My mom's hand was sore for hours. Sometimes she would hit me and I had marks and my family would ask what is that, i said nothing. they said she is hitting you. they knew. but for various reasons I didn't want to do anything about it. Once she scratched me with a screwdriver.
I think she may press charges. Of course to get the custody.
After she left 1 year ago we were very close and even spend a "night" together.
The child is under my care 90% of the time. I literally beg her to spend more time with the child (which I have on my text messages) but she says she can't because there is another toddler in their household and the 2 of them fight a lot. She took him yesterday and asked me to pick him up tomorrow. I also have proof that she said I am a good father.
But obviously, my anxiety didn't fail to interfere.
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