My partner has agreed to let Biodad take the older child (8) on vacation without the younger autistic sibling (7). Biodad is taking older child to paradise island for 2 weeks in Spring. This is the first time my partner has allowed biodad to take one child overseas without the other.
In the past, we've called out biodad for favoring the older child. For example, has a history of dropping off the younger child a day earlier on his weekends so he can spend more time with the older child. But never the other way around. We've asked him to take the younger child on alone time with him, his response is to promise to take the younger child next time. Next time never comes.
He has no interest in the younger child. Case in point, even after all the above gets presented to him, he recently just requested to go on another long trip in the summer with (8) only.
He just doesn't get it. Poor little (7). If only you had been born 'normal' in your biodad's eyes, maybe he would want to spend more time with you.
In the past, we've called out biodad for favoring the older child. For example, has a history of dropping off the younger child a day earlier on his weekends so he can spend more time with the older child. But never the other way around. We've asked him to take the younger child on alone time with him, his response is to promise to take the younger child next time. Next time never comes.
He has no interest in the younger child. Case in point, even after all the above gets presented to him, he recently just requested to go on another long trip in the summer with (8) only.
He just doesn't get it. Poor little (7). If only you had been born 'normal' in your biodad's eyes, maybe he would want to spend more time with you.
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