Spouse and I have been together 10 years. He's unhappy, I'm probably even more unhappy. But the problem is he refused to entertain divorce or separation for reason that are beyond me and my knowledge. We have 2 young kids under the age of 10 so he probably thinks that it's in their best interest if we stay together who knows. Life is hell. We fight all the time. I've tried to reason with him but he won't hear any of it. I don't know how to get through to him and our communication has broken down long ago.
I feel trapped and stuck. I've been reading posts on this forum about what a hell divorce is, but staying together seems equally just as bad. I really don't know what to do. I've never felt so lost in my life. I feel like he will make my life hellish if I go down the divorce route, esp. with the kids, and I really really don't want that. I would wish to to be amicable. Maybe that's wishful thinking.
I feel trapped and stuck. I've been reading posts on this forum about what a hell divorce is, but staying together seems equally just as bad. I really don't know what to do. I've never felt so lost in my life. I feel like he will make my life hellish if I go down the divorce route, esp. with the kids, and I really really don't want that. I would wish to to be amicable. Maybe that's wishful thinking.
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