I found out in April that my C/L spouse of nearly 12 years was having an affair. I was 3 months pregnant with our third child (who I would later learn will be disabled). I moved out in Sept and the deal was that we would sell the family home and split the profit. Now that I am gone he wants to buy me out but can't. He tells me that he has a year to sell since I left 'by choice', and has been dragging this out. He claims that he put more money and sweat into to home (even though I worked full time and was the primary caregiver to our kids) and that he is entitled to more than I. I haven't gone after his pension or spousal support, nor the max for child support but still I am 'screwing' him out of what he worked for. I haven't had an income since July (as I went off on early benefits to deal with all of this) and have been using my credit to cover my bills. (With the exception of his child support). He keeps telling me he has a high priced lawyer and what his rights are. However won't give me his name so that my lawyer can send him an agreenment. How long can he drag this out for crying out loud. I just want the house to be sold and to move on with my life.
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