Hi,
I have been in a common law relationship for 8 years. He's an engineering designer and makes over 40K a year, I am a waitress, I make about 12K, although he made me split all the bills. I could only work days, not weekends either as I had to maintain the household IE) cook, clean, shop, yard work and snow removal etc. i could not take upgrading as that would cut in to HIS time, and cause a lapse in my duties. I found out that I have a shellfish allergy and was told by the hospital that i could no longer work around any kind of shellfish as it was now life threatning. Two days later he left me for another woman whom he was romancing in secret. Now him and his parents tell me that they want to put the house up for sale in under two weeks and i had better figure out what i am going to do and where i am going to live. I was let go from my job due to my allergy so now am unemployed and broke. he is staying with friends and his new girlfriend. The house is in both our names, and we had recently taken out money for upgrades. I want to go ahead with the upgrades as i have been doing alone during the past two weeks. Can they kick me out, he is making me take the pets as well, and am a I eligable for spousal support? I don't know anything, his parents tell me I have to leave and that it is better for everyone to just get this over quick and easy. help.
I have been in a common law relationship for 8 years. He's an engineering designer and makes over 40K a year, I am a waitress, I make about 12K, although he made me split all the bills. I could only work days, not weekends either as I had to maintain the household IE) cook, clean, shop, yard work and snow removal etc. i could not take upgrading as that would cut in to HIS time, and cause a lapse in my duties. I found out that I have a shellfish allergy and was told by the hospital that i could no longer work around any kind of shellfish as it was now life threatning. Two days later he left me for another woman whom he was romancing in secret. Now him and his parents tell me that they want to put the house up for sale in under two weeks and i had better figure out what i am going to do and where i am going to live. I was let go from my job due to my allergy so now am unemployed and broke. he is staying with friends and his new girlfriend. The house is in both our names, and we had recently taken out money for upgrades. I want to go ahead with the upgrades as i have been doing alone during the past two weeks. Can they kick me out, he is making me take the pets as well, and am a I eligable for spousal support? I don't know anything, his parents tell me I have to leave and that it is better for everyone to just get this over quick and easy. help.
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