So in two weeks is the follow up on Motion #1.
The children's lawyer met with each of them and she spend time at STBX's house. Next weekend she will be at my house. I have evidences of message texts between mom and D14 who talks against me and my new partner. CAS were to call her to make her stop that kind of behavior. I also have proof that D14 is doing bad at school, her grades are at the lowest level never reached in past three years. I am not surprise as I've been out of her life for the past two years. S16 will still need some help for a few subjects at school and D8's behavior had changed so much during the past year that I now have a hard time to recognize her. She needs a lot of attention and when she comes home, I need to spend more time with her then the others.
I know the children will choose to stay with mom because that's where they are used to be. Also, they have been withhold by her since the day I lost access to my home. I just feel that I need to show the judge that it would be in the best interest of the kids for a shared custody. It might be too late for D14, but for D8, to stop the parental alienation against me, she would need to spend more time with me. Kids would beneficiate more with school issues as I am well educated comparing with STBX. I am more strict when it comes to homework and provide a better structure. I still believe the kids should keep connected to both side of the extended family and that will be unfortunate. STBX won't promote It for sure and my mother haven't seen my kids for over three years now.
I'll gain something for sure, like the EOW with sleepovers as I only have 4% per month at this time with no sleepovers. The schedule for holidays and vacations is also where I will gain some more time with them. At least, I can show that I've been fighting to be more involved with my kids and if I can't help them today with some issues they have, it's not because I haven't tried. Super Mom will be there for them and Dad will stand in the shadow. Later on, when kids will be in need of help to buy their first car, their first house, or need help/money for other big issues.... dad might stay in the shadow. It will be easier for me to say and explain to my kids that they were old enough to not fall into their mother's bad influences.
Some will probably say that I am hard on my kids but during the past few months, a lot of things had occurred. The way they talk, behave and think shows definitely that their mother and her family are all behind this. I've provided the Court with all the evidences to put a stop at all this. There is nothing more I can do but just wait and see what are the outcomes. From this point, it's up to my kids to scrutinize the truth and make their own judgments.
It will be a long wait until next hearing.
The children's lawyer met with each of them and she spend time at STBX's house. Next weekend she will be at my house. I have evidences of message texts between mom and D14 who talks against me and my new partner. CAS were to call her to make her stop that kind of behavior. I also have proof that D14 is doing bad at school, her grades are at the lowest level never reached in past three years. I am not surprise as I've been out of her life for the past two years. S16 will still need some help for a few subjects at school and D8's behavior had changed so much during the past year that I now have a hard time to recognize her. She needs a lot of attention and when she comes home, I need to spend more time with her then the others.
I know the children will choose to stay with mom because that's where they are used to be. Also, they have been withhold by her since the day I lost access to my home. I just feel that I need to show the judge that it would be in the best interest of the kids for a shared custody. It might be too late for D14, but for D8, to stop the parental alienation against me, she would need to spend more time with me. Kids would beneficiate more with school issues as I am well educated comparing with STBX. I am more strict when it comes to homework and provide a better structure. I still believe the kids should keep connected to both side of the extended family and that will be unfortunate. STBX won't promote It for sure and my mother haven't seen my kids for over three years now.
I'll gain something for sure, like the EOW with sleepovers as I only have 4% per month at this time with no sleepovers. The schedule for holidays and vacations is also where I will gain some more time with them. At least, I can show that I've been fighting to be more involved with my kids and if I can't help them today with some issues they have, it's not because I haven't tried. Super Mom will be there for them and Dad will stand in the shadow. Later on, when kids will be in need of help to buy their first car, their first house, or need help/money for other big issues.... dad might stay in the shadow. It will be easier for me to say and explain to my kids that they were old enough to not fall into their mother's bad influences.
Some will probably say that I am hard on my kids but during the past few months, a lot of things had occurred. The way they talk, behave and think shows definitely that their mother and her family are all behind this. I've provided the Court with all the evidences to put a stop at all this. There is nothing more I can do but just wait and see what are the outcomes. From this point, it's up to my kids to scrutinize the truth and make their own judgments.
It will be a long wait until next hearing.
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