So S/C is tomorrow.
I am in receipt of my EX’s brief.
He strongly disagrees will most of OCL’s recommendations of course. Except for a small few that benefit him... such as some minor changes to access schedule.
The one that I am most concerned about is the therapy and parenting classes he has been told to take.
His Brief says he will “endeavour” to get therapy with our children and himself but does not want it ordered.
Of course he makes no mention of the parenting classes. Which is what he needs the most. Imo.
This will now be the 3rd social worker/ professional to recommend he get some help to learn how to support our children better. It shows in the report from collaterals who else has met with dad and recommended parenting classes.
The fact that dad says he will “endeavour” means nothing. As he has said many times in the past he will attend. But why on earth should anyone believe him since he has yet to do so?
This is one issue I hope at some point will be court ordered.
That is where a lot of the kids resentment comes from. The way they are treated by dad.
Have any of you actually had the SC judge read your OCL report? And speak to what is in it?
I am pretty sure the report will get disputed which I know means nothing.
But everything else aside I really want my ex to be able to better emotionally support our kids and understand what they are going through.
He still is arguing we communicate “good enough” for joint custody.
He says he gets back to me in 24 hrs. Lol
I have so many emails where it takes weeks to get a response and only after 2nd request.
One of his “wants orders” was to order me to include him in taking kids to bday parties in his time. Lol.
Again I send the invites. He ignores. Child misses out. So a week before I get his brief. As usual I send a bday invite. I send photo of invite and ask him to respond. Either way yes or no.
No response given. Send 2nd email saying 2nd request. He actually responded. (Responded to parents, not me) which is fine. After the second email.
So again another example of how he can’t /won’t communicate with me. And I have a million others.
Anyways I know the bashers will come out.
I just want our kids to start trusting dad again and then I think things will get better for them. Which is why dad really needs to consider what has been recommended and why.
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I am in receipt of my EX’s brief.
He strongly disagrees will most of OCL’s recommendations of course. Except for a small few that benefit him... such as some minor changes to access schedule.
The one that I am most concerned about is the therapy and parenting classes he has been told to take.
His Brief says he will “endeavour” to get therapy with our children and himself but does not want it ordered.
Of course he makes no mention of the parenting classes. Which is what he needs the most. Imo.
This will now be the 3rd social worker/ professional to recommend he get some help to learn how to support our children better. It shows in the report from collaterals who else has met with dad and recommended parenting classes.
The fact that dad says he will “endeavour” means nothing. As he has said many times in the past he will attend. But why on earth should anyone believe him since he has yet to do so?
This is one issue I hope at some point will be court ordered.
That is where a lot of the kids resentment comes from. The way they are treated by dad.
Have any of you actually had the SC judge read your OCL report? And speak to what is in it?
I am pretty sure the report will get disputed which I know means nothing.
But everything else aside I really want my ex to be able to better emotionally support our kids and understand what they are going through.
He still is arguing we communicate “good enough” for joint custody.
He says he gets back to me in 24 hrs. Lol
I have so many emails where it takes weeks to get a response and only after 2nd request.
One of his “wants orders” was to order me to include him in taking kids to bday parties in his time. Lol.
Again I send the invites. He ignores. Child misses out. So a week before I get his brief. As usual I send a bday invite. I send photo of invite and ask him to respond. Either way yes or no.
No response given. Send 2nd email saying 2nd request. He actually responded. (Responded to parents, not me) which is fine. After the second email.
So again another example of how he can’t /won’t communicate with me. And I have a million others.
Anyways I know the bashers will come out.
I just want our kids to start trusting dad again and then I think things will get better for them. Which is why dad really needs to consider what has been recommended and why.
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