Originally posted by ddol1
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I was born and raised in Kingston, Lots of memories.
Thank you for the advice, I love my wife I hate what has happened. Emotions sometimes makes us forget that, or me anyways.
Up until now I haven't really shared this with anyone. Its extremely hard to do this alone. My wife is a good person, I've spent sometime researching and see how this can happen to just about anyone.
My next move is her Doctor, I have an appointment Thursday with just myself and the Doctor. I don't want to bring my wife just yet and make her feel like we are "ganging" up on her and she shuts down and wont be open.
We have made some progress, she has expressed a hatred to my job. It takes me from the house 21days at a time. I then return for 14 then gone again for 21 days. I can see how this is hard for her. Things to think about. If my job is part of the problem then maybe I should look for something that keeps me closer to home. Or if they would move to Alberta it would allow me to be home daily 365 days a year. I doubt they will want to move and the thought of a career change at 42 is not overly attractive to me. BUT if its the underlying problem then it might be for every ones best interest.
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