Best schedule for 2 y.o. in different towns

[Tayken]

All the above advice is really bang-on.

Additional threads you should read:

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...od-news-18569/

What the other parent is engaged in is called "jurisdiction shopping".

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...shoping-12010/

More case law on parental moves:

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...sidence-14033/

What everyone is warning you about is establishing a "status quo" that you can't back out of:

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...azaratz-17605/

If the other parent is < 45 minutes away then the best schedule for a two year old is 2-2-3-3:

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...plained-13702/

More on "status quo":

http://www.ottawadivorce.com/forum/f...tus-quo-15936/

The other topic to research is "mobility". You are going to face a challenge with mobility of the child if you give up and let the other parent move.

Good Luck!
Tayken

[Tayken]

Also Note:

That you may have already consented to the move and may have a HUGE up hill battle to fix that problem. Mediation is not appropriate for your situation. It will be a huge waste of time and money. Mediators have no power to order anything. They are over paid consultants that provide little value in a situation like yours. You are dealing with a mobility matter now. The only appropriate place to resolve the residential location of the child is a court of competent jurisdiction. This court would be in the location where the child lived prior to moving if you did not consent (in some way) to the move.

The other option you have is to change employment and move closer to the child.

[Links17]

Thanks for the replies. I assume the "stupid" comment was directed at me. FYI, they were both not planned, was unaware 1st mother was off birth control and yes using protection for the 2nd, so maybe you could ease up a bit.

Ah, fraud then.... sorry for your loss unfortunately pregnancy fraud is a thriving profitable industry for women in Canada.

I suggest more blow jobs to avoid pregnancies but there has been one case....

[Links17]

pay no mind to links.

surprises happen when having sex. The only reliable birth control is not having intercourse at all.

I'm the Hand of Justice.... (I really want to use a bad word here for added impact but i'd probably get banned - but think david chapelle)....

Ignore me at your own risk.