Here's the situation:
CL for 6yrs, we have two children (6, 5)
The last year has been hell, but pretty much insulated from the children, until just recently.
Now the hostility is becoming apparent to the children (and yes, I'm keeping a detailed log of her behaviours regarding the children, and as well towards me), and she has _finally_ stopped wearing the ring.
My feelings are that we need to address the situation, and spare the children from having to endure this any more.
She is in total avoidance, and refuses to discuss, or work towards a separation agreement. Any attempts from me to start this moving have been met by the response "I don't have to sign anything", and she has blown off any lawyer appts that she has made.
I meet with my lawyer next week, but would like to have some idea of what I can do if she refuses to respond to a proposed SA. What would be my steps to get this process moving so that everyone, esp the children can get to a steady-state in their lives.
Any guidance, or suggestions is very much appreciated.
CL for 6yrs, we have two children (6, 5)
The last year has been hell, but pretty much insulated from the children, until just recently.
Now the hostility is becoming apparent to the children (and yes, I'm keeping a detailed log of her behaviours regarding the children, and as well towards me), and she has _finally_ stopped wearing the ring.
My feelings are that we need to address the situation, and spare the children from having to endure this any more.
She is in total avoidance, and refuses to discuss, or work towards a separation agreement. Any attempts from me to start this moving have been met by the response "I don't have to sign anything", and she has blown off any lawyer appts that she has made.
I meet with my lawyer next week, but would like to have some idea of what I can do if she refuses to respond to a proposed SA. What would be my steps to get this process moving so that everyone, esp the children can get to a steady-state in their lives.
Any guidance, or suggestions is very much appreciated.
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