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Originally posted by rvalentines View PostDadWhoDidntGiveUp, Can you tell us the longest time you went without seeing your child?
I'm going through a rough patch - haven't seen my children in over a month due to false allegations. I'm wondering how others got through this type of difficulty.
It was a horrible time.
DadWhoDidntGiveUp
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Originally posted by rvalentines View PostOk - I'm approaching 1.5 months and trying very hard to keep going. Your website is very motivating and helps to know that I should keep advocating for my children.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Note though that the difference between you and him you were actually charged and are going through a criminal case. Plus you had access but ended up with supervised access due to an ill advised motion. This apples to oranges. I know you miss your kids but you should not get into a mindset where you make a move that sets you back even further.
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Originally posted by LovingDad1234 View PostThat is amazing news!! Congrats!! Hopefully the Arbitrator came down on your ex for acting the way she did...
DadWhoDidntGiveUp
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Originally posted by rockscan View PostNote though that the difference between you and him you were actually charged and are going through a criminal case. Plus you had access but ended up with supervised access due to an ill advised motion. This apples to oranges. I know you miss your kids but you should not get into a mindset where you make a move that sets you back even further.
Good point (and memory). I regret my decision everyday as it could not have come at a worse time. Had the motion only been a week later it would have been adjourned.
Now the new order also prohibits me from bringing any further motions as well as the Mother is not budging on giving me access since all supervised facilities are closed.
Looks like I won't be seeing them for another couple months until this COVID thing is finished with.
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Originally posted by DadWhoDidntGiveUp View PostI won the Arbitration.
Thanks for everyone’s support and assistance.
Thanks Kinso and Tayken for posting the information regarding the Pazaratz ruling — I immediately forwarded the case law to the Arbitrator upon reading your posts.
The Arbitrator cited Pazaratz in her decision.
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Originally posted by Tayken View PostExcellent news. It is unfortunate that you had to go to arbitration over the matter. The lawyer representing the other parent in this matter should have known better.
Money talks - unruly clients sometimes talk even louder [emoji2361]
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Originally posted by DadWhoDidntGiveUp View PostStating the Arbitrator “came down on your ex” is an understatement. She really came down H-A-R-D on Miss Glad-She’s-Now-An-Ex. I want to frame her decision and put it up on my wall because it’s the first time in 6 years that someone in authority has put Miss Glad-She’s-Now-An-Ex in her place.
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If you want some good reading check out the threads from a user named WorkingDad. Legendary case claw and the other parent actually used to post on this forum... crazy stuff. It's great stuck-at-home reading during COVID-19 lockdown.
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Originally posted by vocalfather View PostMoney talks - unruly clients sometimes talk even louder [emoji2361]
Too many Jim "The Hammer" Shapiro's out there.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Shapiro_(attorney)
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As officers of the court lawyers should be reprimanded for allowing any client to pursue frivolous claims. Advocacy has gone too far. It is damaging to everyone. The lawyer I had for a while (who I loved but could not afford) gave me very stern advice that he would not engage with the other side's nonsense and made it clear to me that he would not be party to anything vexatious from me. Full stop. Judges should have the authority to penalize, reverse fees and enter public admonishment. In my dreams.
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Originally posted by DadWhoDidntGiveUp View PostI won the Arbitration.
Thanks for everyone’s support and assistance.
Thanks Kinso and Tayken for posting the information regarding the Pazaratz ruling — I immediately forwarded the case law to the Arbitrator upon reading your posts.
The Arbitrator cited Pazaratz in her decision.
DadWhoDidntGiveUp
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I received several messages about the Arbitrator’s reaction to the mother’s accusations. Here is an example of what the Arbitrator wrote in the Arbitration Award:
The Arbitrator called her out on several issues including the following:- The mother claimed that the family doctor had stated that “COVID-19 was a hoax.” The Arbitrator stated that it was highly likely that the mother made this up because the Arbitrator could not imagine a doctor making a statement like that in the middle of the COVID-19 pandemic.
- The Arbitrator accused the mother of “Doctor Shopping.” In the mother’s evidence submission, she admitted to taking our son to the non-family pediatrician in hopes that a Doctor would tell her that our son should stay with her until the COVID-19 pandemic was over.
The Arbitrator wrote that “the Arbitration award shall be enforced by the city’s Police Service”
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