I have been watching this debate with mild interest. I agree that all parties' households are autonomous and each parent does not have the right to dictate to the other about activities in the other parent's home.
What I have observed in this debate, however, is that there is much assumption about respective party's reaction/non-reaction.
I do not condone any parent (bio or step) who does something to intentionally upset the other party. If you are about to do something, and you know the other parent would not approve, why bother doing it?
The way I see it there are peace-makers and there are shit-stirrers.
I have never been in this situation (thankfully) but it would seem that it would be in the best interests of the child(ren) to try to get along with the other parent. Intentionally angering the other parent (even if it is your right) is counter-productive.
What I have observed in this debate, however, is that there is much assumption about respective party's reaction/non-reaction.
I do not condone any parent (bio or step) who does something to intentionally upset the other party. If you are about to do something, and you know the other parent would not approve, why bother doing it?
The way I see it there are peace-makers and there are shit-stirrers.
I have never been in this situation (thankfully) but it would seem that it would be in the best interests of the child(ren) to try to get along with the other parent. Intentionally angering the other parent (even if it is your right) is counter-productive.
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