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  • #16
    oh really.....the doctors told me it was untreatable.......even 6 months ago they maintained that it cannot be treated. the doc told me they can supress it but it can never be "cured".

    i give what i can even currently. my financial statements are proof of that. even though i dont have alot of money lets say only 230 in the bank i gave 150 to help my child out the best i can. the part where it said may june and july was mentioned because it was their answer.

    i continued to try and support the best of my abilities. im below the guidelines but i continue to volunteer to pay what i can.

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    • #17
      Does your condition prevent you from working? If you can work under the table you can work above the table. It is clear you are working, just not the legal way. Your "reported" income is below the threshold for CS, but is your ACTUAL income?

      The fact that you have a degree and letters of recommendations, can and most likely will work against you as the other side can seek to have income imputed on you.

      You need to tread carefully

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      • #18
        my condition prevents me from working serious physical labour without meals every 2 hours.

        my metabolic rate is much higher because of the condition so after 2 hours my energy begins to plummet. but for any mental work im in the clear because im not exerting as much energy. i used to do physical labour but when i was diagnosed with the condition i began to not be able to work unless i was given food only after 2-3 hours. which in the end caused for me to cost more then what my labour was worth.

        if they were to get imputed income against me they will also be disappointed. i spend most of my money on food alone. i have no car nothing expensive but my computer and my bed. my computer is worth 1600 but its a necessary for my education and work. the judge agreed and noted it in our motion when they tried to get a motion for support.

        berner i appreciate your post and its something to consider.

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        • #19
          Lots of things are incurable, but highly treatable. Like hyperthyroidism, which is fairly common so this in itself is not a valid reason for not having a job.


          If you've been diagnosed with Graves-Basedow disease (which I'm sure you know is the most common cause of hyperthyroidism), there is no actual treatment for Grave's Disease however there ARE fairly simple treatment options for the end results (hyperthyroidism) which can range from RAI to anti-thyroid drugs to complete thyroidectomy & thyroxine treatment.

          All are fairly simple methods to deal with the issue and have a normal life.

          If your doctors haven't told you any of this, you need a new doctor NOW and should be seeing an endocrinology specialist either way.

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          • #20
            blink thank you is it possible that we can chat on another forum such as skype. i would like to get this annoyance fixed. i would love to talk to you in possible options that i can have to get this permanently fixed.

            but i don't have graves disease. my hyperthyroids are caused by prolonged infection of ingrown toenails and thus my proten levels is very low. i do get high amounts of protein in my diet but doctors currently cannot explain as to why my thyroids is still out of wack.

            it hasn't inhibited me from working, just physical work is restricted to a few hours without nourishment. i can still perform physical and mental but physical is just in short bursts.

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            • #21
              Sure, you can PM me if you like.

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              • #22
                i cant pm you just posted on your wall.

                lets get back on topic though..

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                • #23
                  quick question, excluding settlements, can i ask for something that isnt included in the application or would i have to do a change of order or start a new proceeding of application?

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                  • #24
                    Originally posted by blinkandimgone View Post
                    If you've been to the doctor and have 'documents' to prove it, you'd also be well aware that hyperthyroidism is highly treatable with propranolol or other beta blockers, which are relatively cheap even if you don't have insurance coverage. This would seem a much more appropriate, inexpensive and healthier alternative to spends gads of money on food to deal with the weight loss and increased appetite.

                    You seem to have a lot of excuses as to why you aren`t doing what you should be in regards to supporting your child.
                    I do not want to hijack tread but is it any "blockers" to help with opposite? I mean when you eat not much but keep gain weight?

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                    • #25
                      regardless it didnt help...

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                      • #26
                        Bumpity Bump Bump.

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by SynGreis View Post
                          you know what i mean .

                          im fairly confident but i want to make sure my success is highest possible. if you guys need specific information don't hesitate to ask me.
                          Then stop calling children "IT".

                          In any material it should be written, no matter who has "custody" by either party as "our children".

                          You have object relation issues possibly and may be viewing the children as "objects" and not human beings. We do not (a) know what you mean and (b) only care about the child's best interests and not insure *your* success is as high as possible but, the best outcome for the child (not "IT") in question.

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by SynGreis View Post
                            no, the kid is mine she admit it on phone and in the answer, i want to see my own son hence this proceeding.
                            Apparently she has said LOTS of things. Get the test to prove it before setting yourself up for ~20 years of obligations.

                            You may want to be the father, but before you start committing yourself to the kid and getting attached, find out if you are first.

                            Get the test.

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                            • #29
                              when she told me it wasn't mine i didn't buy it at all. i have no reason to believe its not mine and the parental duties was settled a long time ago as i offered to care for the child.

                              i went back in my documents and i never put "it" as the child so I'm in the clear, i know i did that sometimes and i really shouldn't be doing that

                              but thanks for your opinions hammerdad and tayken.

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by HammerDad View Post
                                Apparently she has said LOTS of things. Get the test to prove it before setting yourself up for ~20 years of obligations.

                                You may want to be the father, but before you start committing yourself to the kid and getting attached, find out if you are first.

                                Get the test.
                                Agreed, could be a much bigger mess down the road if it turns that the baby isn't yours and bio-dad turns up. Then you and bio-dad would both be 'on the hook' for CS and you could be splitting baby's time between the three of you. Why sign up for a lifetime of this if you don't have to?

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