Hi this is my first post so thank-you for your time.
After finding out about my wife's adultery a year ago and given her past physical violence to me (no police reports), I decided to leave the marriage.
We agreed on mediation and after 4 months of mediation we reached an agreement.
I stayed in matrimonial home. The real estate agents were listing it at $310,000, to avoid conflict I offered to value the house at $325,000.
I came into marriage with $50,000 in net worth, my ex was $-10,000.
In order for her to purchase a new condo I co signed and did not request an equalization payment (would have been in my favour). I left her RRSPs and her small pension at her work.
In exchange she left my pension. Total contributions to my pension during marriage were $22,000.
We share custody. I make $77,000 she makes $34,000. plus $9000 from govt and I pay $800 CS and $200 spousal plus pay all daycare her cell phone bill $50 and another payment of $80. SS for 2 year duration on a 6.5 year marriage.
I have recently started dating and she wants revenge and hired a lawyer. her lawyer wants agreement thrown out because she didnt get legal advice (she signed release) and that the agreement is grossly unfair because she didnt get half my pension and SS should be indefinate and is under paid. also said she was hoping to reconcile during mediation and that created unfair balance of power (we never tried...no sexual contact seperate beds etc)
Will she be able to open agreement? I do not want big lawyer bills.
thanks
After finding out about my wife's adultery a year ago and given her past physical violence to me (no police reports), I decided to leave the marriage.
We agreed on mediation and after 4 months of mediation we reached an agreement.
I stayed in matrimonial home. The real estate agents were listing it at $310,000, to avoid conflict I offered to value the house at $325,000.
I came into marriage with $50,000 in net worth, my ex was $-10,000.
In order for her to purchase a new condo I co signed and did not request an equalization payment (would have been in my favour). I left her RRSPs and her small pension at her work.
In exchange she left my pension. Total contributions to my pension during marriage were $22,000.
We share custody. I make $77,000 she makes $34,000. plus $9000 from govt and I pay $800 CS and $200 spousal plus pay all daycare her cell phone bill $50 and another payment of $80. SS for 2 year duration on a 6.5 year marriage.
I have recently started dating and she wants revenge and hired a lawyer. her lawyer wants agreement thrown out because she didnt get legal advice (she signed release) and that the agreement is grossly unfair because she didnt get half my pension and SS should be indefinate and is under paid. also said she was hoping to reconcile during mediation and that created unfair balance of power (we never tried...no sexual contact seperate beds etc)
Will she be able to open agreement? I do not want big lawyer bills.
thanks
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