"I'm looking for a way to delicately speak with ex regarding the equal distribution of holiday access."
I'm sorry man, but at what point has all of the positioning, posturing, and delicate wording actually done ANYTHING for you? Virtually everything that you have achieved has been through the motion.
Almost every attempt at collaboration and compromise with your ex outside of the court process has ended in rejection.
I'm not saying that you should stop communicating with her and attempting to get whatever time you can, I'm saying that you don't need to keep killing yourself with effort in terms of the wording.
Keep it polite, keep it brief, and keep it direct. It doesn't matter how well you word it, she's going to be a she-beast and refuse it anyway. All that you need to do is make sure that the letter won't make you look like a nutcase in the courtroom.
I'm sorry man, but at what point has all of the positioning, posturing, and delicate wording actually done ANYTHING for you? Virtually everything that you have achieved has been through the motion.
Almost every attempt at collaboration and compromise with your ex outside of the court process has ended in rejection.
I'm not saying that you should stop communicating with her and attempting to get whatever time you can, I'm saying that you don't need to keep killing yourself with effort in terms of the wording.
Keep it polite, keep it brief, and keep it direct. It doesn't matter how well you word it, she's going to be a she-beast and refuse it anyway. All that you need to do is make sure that the letter won't make you look like a nutcase in the courtroom.
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