What Links is proposing is not that outrageous. Is he rough around the edges about it? Sure he is .. he just exited the meat grinder and has his own subjective feelings and opinions about the family law system.
A documentary outlining the steps a father could take when he arrives home from work to no family, a slew of false allegations and 3/4 of his bank account missing .. or a father who's been locked out of his own home and suddenly has no family because mom met someone else or dislikes the relationship, etc.
Not everybody has a flying carpet like ONDaddy that wisps around the block collecting orders, CAS reports, tracing phone signals all within a day or 2, sending the mom on EOW.
In the real world we have a battle on our hands. We need evidence, access denials in writing, how to start an application, how to present in a CC or SC .. offers of settlement, parenting classes, etc. Christ, I even went for and became a certified "baby seat installation" instructor.
I know Links, everything that happened to me in the 2 years and the same posters torment me until this day.
We don't hate women. All I have is women in my life. I was raised by a single mom. I work with mostly ladies, go on coffee breaks with them, etc.
We just want a fair race for custody and perhaps some stories and rough tutorials for fathers would facilitate that. The mom's are 10 steps ahead when the father gets home to no family.
Links just wants it to be more been footing by educating what steps to take.
Why not women too? The advice given can be used by mothers also of course ... but lets face it, men don't usually call 911, report abuse, lock the doors and say "no access" as often as mom's. We also dont have Shelter's and counselor's paving the way for us. We're the "tough" gender who arn't allowed to cry, show pain, etc.
I'm not a misogynist at all. Women ROCK. But Link's idea isn't all that outlandish and evil. It would be educational, informative and would probably shorten the line ups at FLIC and save money on lawyers.
A documentary outlining the steps a father could take when he arrives home from work to no family, a slew of false allegations and 3/4 of his bank account missing .. or a father who's been locked out of his own home and suddenly has no family because mom met someone else or dislikes the relationship, etc.
Not everybody has a flying carpet like ONDaddy that wisps around the block collecting orders, CAS reports, tracing phone signals all within a day or 2, sending the mom on EOW.
In the real world we have a battle on our hands. We need evidence, access denials in writing, how to start an application, how to present in a CC or SC .. offers of settlement, parenting classes, etc. Christ, I even went for and became a certified "baby seat installation" instructor.
I know Links, everything that happened to me in the 2 years and the same posters torment me until this day.
We don't hate women. All I have is women in my life. I was raised by a single mom. I work with mostly ladies, go on coffee breaks with them, etc.
We just want a fair race for custody and perhaps some stories and rough tutorials for fathers would facilitate that. The mom's are 10 steps ahead when the father gets home to no family.
Links just wants it to be more been footing by educating what steps to take.
Why not women too? The advice given can be used by mothers also of course ... but lets face it, men don't usually call 911, report abuse, lock the doors and say "no access" as often as mom's. We also dont have Shelter's and counselor's paving the way for us. We're the "tough" gender who arn't allowed to cry, show pain, etc.
I'm not a misogynist at all. Women ROCK. But Link's idea isn't all that outlandish and evil. It would be educational, informative and would probably shorten the line ups at FLIC and save money on lawyers.
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