Here is couple of situations. (not mine) Please feel free to kick my ass if I am wrong here.
1.Mom - single with 2 boys , age 4 and 6, carrying alone for them
Dad - out of picture and comes every 3 month for one day to visit his kids.
Kids - very happy to see father, every day asking for father and very upset when he leaves. They cry hard all night and say daddy does not love us , were we so bad, why he gone)
One day youngest got sick, very sick, mom did call father. Here conversation
M - Hi, our youngest son is very sick, he is asking about you, could you come?
F- I do give a Shit about it. F word. Deal with it alone, I do not care, and did not show up even for this 3 month apart visit.
2. 5 years old daughter suddenly became upset before visit. On question what wrong with you , she answers that she is afraid. On question why, she said that other side is hitting her and shows how. Other side denies everything and nothing can be proven. Child is more afraid each time, upset to either side, thinking that noone can protect her.(which is true and very sad)
3. Father has regular visits EOW and Wednesday, he constantly misses his visits without any exponentiation, his kids very upset with it. Mom tries to talk to Father, and again F word and noone can make me. On other hand when, mom needs to switch with reasonable * excuse*, answer is you will loose custody for it...
So how all this is in best interest of child? I just can't get it!!!. Sorry, but I think upsetting child is not so *best* for him/her
1.Mom - single with 2 boys , age 4 and 6, carrying alone for them
Dad - out of picture and comes every 3 month for one day to visit his kids.
Kids - very happy to see father, every day asking for father and very upset when he leaves. They cry hard all night and say daddy does not love us , were we so bad, why he gone)
One day youngest got sick, very sick, mom did call father. Here conversation
M - Hi, our youngest son is very sick, he is asking about you, could you come?
F- I do give a Shit about it. F word. Deal with it alone, I do not care, and did not show up even for this 3 month apart visit.
2. 5 years old daughter suddenly became upset before visit. On question what wrong with you , she answers that she is afraid. On question why, she said that other side is hitting her and shows how. Other side denies everything and nothing can be proven. Child is more afraid each time, upset to either side, thinking that noone can protect her.(which is true and very sad)
3. Father has regular visits EOW and Wednesday, he constantly misses his visits without any exponentiation, his kids very upset with it. Mom tries to talk to Father, and again F word and noone can make me. On other hand when, mom needs to switch with reasonable * excuse*, answer is you will loose custody for it...
So how all this is in best interest of child? I just can't get it!!!. Sorry, but I think upsetting child is not so *best* for him/her
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