I have an interem order for primary care and control of 16 year old step daughter and 7 year old daughter.
16 year old stayed with me for quite a while, I had trouble trying my best to keep her in school and to co-operate with me and the nanny, she does not talk to her mom as they immediately fight and her mom totally demeans her like you would not imagine ever a mother would do...but the 16 year olds grandmother always brainwashes the kids to hate me and their mom, and finally when the grandmother got word the 16 year old wanted to move 10 hours away with her 19yr old boyfriend, the grandmother bought her a one way plane ticket, now the 16 yr old is all moved out of the house and school of course and gone.
I would let her move back if something happened, even though I have been told by a few people not to, and to let her learn life now before its too late, I believe she is too young and vulnerable for leaving her on her own.
I know you only have one side of the story but the grandmother is somewhat evil and loves this stuff.
Am I liable for anything she does now that she is moved out? I notified the mother of course, but not the biological father as I have no idea where he is and the child has had nothing to do with her since she was 10.
Should I be notifying anyone about this, I know its not my fault, but it seems weird to just let a 16 yr old out into the world especially with no education, I still have contact with her by smart phone.
Would be nice to keep the grandmother away from the younger one...nothing against grandmothers of course...just this one!
16 year old stayed with me for quite a while, I had trouble trying my best to keep her in school and to co-operate with me and the nanny, she does not talk to her mom as they immediately fight and her mom totally demeans her like you would not imagine ever a mother would do...but the 16 year olds grandmother always brainwashes the kids to hate me and their mom, and finally when the grandmother got word the 16 year old wanted to move 10 hours away with her 19yr old boyfriend, the grandmother bought her a one way plane ticket, now the 16 yr old is all moved out of the house and school of course and gone.
I would let her move back if something happened, even though I have been told by a few people not to, and to let her learn life now before its too late, I believe she is too young and vulnerable for leaving her on her own.
I know you only have one side of the story but the grandmother is somewhat evil and loves this stuff.
Am I liable for anything she does now that she is moved out? I notified the mother of course, but not the biological father as I have no idea where he is and the child has had nothing to do with her since she was 10.
Should I be notifying anyone about this, I know its not my fault, but it seems weird to just let a 16 yr old out into the world especially with no education, I still have contact with her by smart phone.
Would be nice to keep the grandmother away from the younger one...nothing against grandmothers of course...just this one!
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