Not once in our 12 years of being coparents have I ever received my ex's NOA without a fight. He saves them until we are in court and they suddenly appear.
The most recent NOA that I have is for 2017. I have been hounding him for 2018-2020 on a frequent basis. My messages remain unanswered or I receive "NOA is firthcoming" and still don't receive them. He did respond to my most recent request ssying agian that they are forthcoming, and, oh by the way, my income dropped and you will owe me a significant chunk of change. He works for the federal government and I suspect he had a bonus in 2017 that raised his income and that the following years were his "true" income.
I know all about ups and downs with income, hence the reason NOAs are exchanged annually. He's gearing up for another court appearance and I will probably not see the NOAs until then.
As stated above, I have many email/OFW messages requesting the paperwork. What are the chances that I could agree to the overpayment for 2020 and have the other years wiped out due to the fact he ignored my requests or stonewalled me?
I understand that I will have to reimburse some. I am not trying to get out of that obligation. Just curious if I have a leg to stand on with my (failed) attempts to ensure the correct amount is being paid.
The most recent NOA that I have is for 2017. I have been hounding him for 2018-2020 on a frequent basis. My messages remain unanswered or I receive "NOA is firthcoming" and still don't receive them. He did respond to my most recent request ssying agian that they are forthcoming, and, oh by the way, my income dropped and you will owe me a significant chunk of change. He works for the federal government and I suspect he had a bonus in 2017 that raised his income and that the following years were his "true" income.
I know all about ups and downs with income, hence the reason NOAs are exchanged annually. He's gearing up for another court appearance and I will probably not see the NOAs until then.
As stated above, I have many email/OFW messages requesting the paperwork. What are the chances that I could agree to the overpayment for 2020 and have the other years wiped out due to the fact he ignored my requests or stonewalled me?
I understand that I will have to reimburse some. I am not trying to get out of that obligation. Just curious if I have a leg to stand on with my (failed) attempts to ensure the correct amount is being paid.
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