You can cherry pick from this list.....courtesy of one of the posters whose name escapes me at this time:
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[1] The applicant father and the respondent mother shall have shared custody of the children, ___, born the Jan ___ , 1999 and ___, born Dec ____, 1999.
Parenting Schedule
[2] The children shall continue to reside with each parent in accordance with the current week-about schedule, save and except that the children shall spend Wednesday at 8 am to Thursday at 8 am with the parent with whom they are not residing during that week. The parties may agree to an alternate day for the weekly overnight sharing of time to occur.
[3] During the months of July and August, each parent may request one week without the mid-week overnight for the purposes of a brief vacation.
[4] The Christmas holiday shall be alternated between the parents by dividing the period from December 24th, 2012 at noon to December 26th at 5pm, such that the children will spend time with one parent from December 24th at noon to Christmas Day at 2pm and Christmas Day at 2pm to December 26th at 5pm with the other parent. The applicant father shall have the first block in even numbered years and the second block in odd-numbered years. The respondent mother shall have the first block in odd numbered years and the second block in even numbered years.
[5] The children shall be with the applicant father every father’s day from 10 am to 5 pm, and with the respondent mother every mother’s day from l0 am to 5 pm.
[6] School March breaks shall be divided evenly between both parents.
[7] All other holidays will be shared in accordance with the regular access schedule, save and except the Thanksgiving and Easter weekends, the children shall return to the care of their mother on Sundays at 12 noon. On Labour Day weekends the children shall be and/or remain with their father from Sunday at 12:00 noon until the commencement of school, on the Tuesday immediately following Labour Day, (or in the event that school does not commence the Tuesday following Labour Day, the children shall be with father at least the day prior to the commencement of school.), insofar as education shall be the father’s primary responsibility in relation to the children.
[8] The children’s birthday shall be spent with each parent according to the regular schedule. It is recognized that this may mean each parent will have to arrange an alternate date to celebrate the child’s birthday, other than the child’s actual birthday date.
Exchanges
[9] All exchanges shall occur either at the children’s daycare or at the Tim Horton’s restaurant at ________. ___________, Ontario or at such other neutral location that the parents may agree to from time to time.
[10] Should a third party accompany either parent to the exchange, they shall wait in the car of the parent they are accompanying.
[11] There shall be no direct communication between the parents at transfers, and there shall be no recording of the children, the parents or the accompanying parties by any method whatsoever, including audio or visual recording.
[12] Should either parent be more than ten minutes late to arrive at the transfer location, they shall notify the other parent by text message.
Communication:
[13] The parents shall consult one another by the current “Our Family Wizard” email program, concerning all Major issues relating to the children.
[14] Parents’ communication shall be limited to issues affecting the children, and shall be done by email, text, or in writing only.
[15] In the event of an emergency involving the children, the parents shall notify one another by sending a text message.
[16] In the normal course, a party receiving an email message shall be expected to answer that email message within 48 hours of its receipt by them.
[17] If the parents are unable to agree in relation to major issues affecting the children, then the applicant father shall have the final decision making authority with regard to issues affecting the children’s education and the respondent mother shall have the final decision making authority regarding dental, medical and general health issues.
[18] Should an issue be of major importance and cannot be resolved, then the parties shall revert to use of a parenting coordinator in order to resolve such issue.
[19] The parents shall not attend at one another’s home or workplace for any reason whatsoever without limitation.
[20] The children shall have phone access to each parent at their request.
[21] While each parent shall be entitled to attend the children’s school events and extracurricular activities, they shall not - directly or indirectly - attempt to communicate with the other parent while at the event, nor shall they attend with or near the other parent.
School:
[22] The children shall attend school at ______ Public School, in ________, Ontario.
[23] The applicant father shall complete any and all registration and related forms necessary to register the children for school.
[24] The applicant father shall ensure that he and the respondent mother are the primary emergency contacts.
[25] Each parent shall designate their respective mothers as the secondary emergency contact. Each parent shall also designate a third non-family member as an emergency contact.
[26] It shall be each parent’s responsibility to arrange directly with the school in order to receive duplicate report cards and notices, school schedules and so on. Neither party shall be restricted in any way from attending at the school or arranging appropriate interviews with teachers.
[27] The parents shall arrange for and attend separate parent-teacher interviews, as appropriate.
Health and Medical Care:
[28] Dr. ____ _______ shall continue to be the children’s family doctor, and Dr. ___ ________ shall continue to be the children’s pediatrician.
[29] Unless specifically arranged by the doctor in question, the parents shall not attend medical appointments together.
[30] It shall be the responsibility of the respondent mother to arrange for and attend all routine medical appointments.
[31] In the event emergency care is required, then the on-duty parent shall arrange for and attend. They shall notify the other parent of the necessity of such emergency attendance by way of text message.
[32] The on-duty parent shall notify the hospital of contact information for both parents when providing intake information to the hospital in these circumstances.
[33] Should circumstances require the parents to attend an emergency at the same time, and if they are unable to agree on emergency treatment, then the respondent mother shall make the necessary decision after consulting the treating physicians and the applicant father.
[34] The applicant father and the respondent mother shall be entitled to contact with, and obtaining information from, the children’s respective doctors, dentists, teachers, daycare providers and other professionals providing professional care for the children.
[35] The applicant father and respondent mother shall both enroll the children in any medical, dental and extended care benefit plans that may be available to them through their employment, and shall maintain the children under these benefit plans for so long as the benefits are available to them through their employment. Should such benefits become unavailable, they shall notify the other parent within 48 hours of obtaining such knowledge.
[36] It shall be the responsibility of the respondent mother to maintain all health records, immunization records and health cards for the benefit of the children. She shall provide copies of same to the applicant father in order to ensure that he has up to date records at all times.
Extracurricular Activities:
[37] Each parent may register the children for extracurricular activities for the time the children are in their care. They shall be restricted from registering the children in extracurricular activities during the time the children are in the other parent’s care.
[38] Each parent shall be solely responsible for transportation to such activities and for the costs of such activities, including registration fees and necessary equipment or transportation.
[39] Should the children receive invitations to attend a friend’s birthday party or other similar event, the parents shall attempt to accommodate the children’s desire to attend such events, regardless of which parent has care of the children at the time.
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[1] The applicant father and the respondent mother shall have shared custody of the children, ___, born the Jan ___ , 1999 and ___, born Dec ____, 1999.
Parenting Schedule
[2] The children shall continue to reside with each parent in accordance with the current week-about schedule, save and except that the children shall spend Wednesday at 8 am to Thursday at 8 am with the parent with whom they are not residing during that week. The parties may agree to an alternate day for the weekly overnight sharing of time to occur.
[3] During the months of July and August, each parent may request one week without the mid-week overnight for the purposes of a brief vacation.
[4] The Christmas holiday shall be alternated between the parents by dividing the period from December 24th, 2012 at noon to December 26th at 5pm, such that the children will spend time with one parent from December 24th at noon to Christmas Day at 2pm and Christmas Day at 2pm to December 26th at 5pm with the other parent. The applicant father shall have the first block in even numbered years and the second block in odd-numbered years. The respondent mother shall have the first block in odd numbered years and the second block in even numbered years.
[5] The children shall be with the applicant father every father’s day from 10 am to 5 pm, and with the respondent mother every mother’s day from l0 am to 5 pm.
[6] School March breaks shall be divided evenly between both parents.
[7] All other holidays will be shared in accordance with the regular access schedule, save and except the Thanksgiving and Easter weekends, the children shall return to the care of their mother on Sundays at 12 noon. On Labour Day weekends the children shall be and/or remain with their father from Sunday at 12:00 noon until the commencement of school, on the Tuesday immediately following Labour Day, (or in the event that school does not commence the Tuesday following Labour Day, the children shall be with father at least the day prior to the commencement of school.), insofar as education shall be the father’s primary responsibility in relation to the children.
[8] The children’s birthday shall be spent with each parent according to the regular schedule. It is recognized that this may mean each parent will have to arrange an alternate date to celebrate the child’s birthday, other than the child’s actual birthday date.
Exchanges
[9] All exchanges shall occur either at the children’s daycare or at the Tim Horton’s restaurant at ________. ___________, Ontario or at such other neutral location that the parents may agree to from time to time.
[10] Should a third party accompany either parent to the exchange, they shall wait in the car of the parent they are accompanying.
[11] There shall be no direct communication between the parents at transfers, and there shall be no recording of the children, the parents or the accompanying parties by any method whatsoever, including audio or visual recording.
[12] Should either parent be more than ten minutes late to arrive at the transfer location, they shall notify the other parent by text message.
Communication:
[13] The parents shall consult one another by the current “Our Family Wizard” email program, concerning all Major issues relating to the children.
[14] Parents’ communication shall be limited to issues affecting the children, and shall be done by email, text, or in writing only.
[15] In the event of an emergency involving the children, the parents shall notify one another by sending a text message.
[16] In the normal course, a party receiving an email message shall be expected to answer that email message within 48 hours of its receipt by them.
[17] If the parents are unable to agree in relation to major issues affecting the children, then the applicant father shall have the final decision making authority with regard to issues affecting the children’s education and the respondent mother shall have the final decision making authority regarding dental, medical and general health issues.
[18] Should an issue be of major importance and cannot be resolved, then the parties shall revert to use of a parenting coordinator in order to resolve such issue.
[19] The parents shall not attend at one another’s home or workplace for any reason whatsoever without limitation.
[20] The children shall have phone access to each parent at their request.
[21] While each parent shall be entitled to attend the children’s school events and extracurricular activities, they shall not - directly or indirectly - attempt to communicate with the other parent while at the event, nor shall they attend with or near the other parent.
School:
[22] The children shall attend school at ______ Public School, in ________, Ontario.
[23] The applicant father shall complete any and all registration and related forms necessary to register the children for school.
[24] The applicant father shall ensure that he and the respondent mother are the primary emergency contacts.
[25] Each parent shall designate their respective mothers as the secondary emergency contact. Each parent shall also designate a third non-family member as an emergency contact.
[26] It shall be each parent’s responsibility to arrange directly with the school in order to receive duplicate report cards and notices, school schedules and so on. Neither party shall be restricted in any way from attending at the school or arranging appropriate interviews with teachers.
[27] The parents shall arrange for and attend separate parent-teacher interviews, as appropriate.
Health and Medical Care:
[28] Dr. ____ _______ shall continue to be the children’s family doctor, and Dr. ___ ________ shall continue to be the children’s pediatrician.
[29] Unless specifically arranged by the doctor in question, the parents shall not attend medical appointments together.
[30] It shall be the responsibility of the respondent mother to arrange for and attend all routine medical appointments.
[31] In the event emergency care is required, then the on-duty parent shall arrange for and attend. They shall notify the other parent of the necessity of such emergency attendance by way of text message.
[32] The on-duty parent shall notify the hospital of contact information for both parents when providing intake information to the hospital in these circumstances.
[33] Should circumstances require the parents to attend an emergency at the same time, and if they are unable to agree on emergency treatment, then the respondent mother shall make the necessary decision after consulting the treating physicians and the applicant father.
[34] The applicant father and the respondent mother shall be entitled to contact with, and obtaining information from, the children’s respective doctors, dentists, teachers, daycare providers and other professionals providing professional care for the children.
[35] The applicant father and respondent mother shall both enroll the children in any medical, dental and extended care benefit plans that may be available to them through their employment, and shall maintain the children under these benefit plans for so long as the benefits are available to them through their employment. Should such benefits become unavailable, they shall notify the other parent within 48 hours of obtaining such knowledge.
[36] It shall be the responsibility of the respondent mother to maintain all health records, immunization records and health cards for the benefit of the children. She shall provide copies of same to the applicant father in order to ensure that he has up to date records at all times.
Extracurricular Activities:
[37] Each parent may register the children for extracurricular activities for the time the children are in their care. They shall be restricted from registering the children in extracurricular activities during the time the children are in the other parent’s care.
[38] Each parent shall be solely responsible for transportation to such activities and for the costs of such activities, including registration fees and necessary equipment or transportation.
[39] Should the children receive invitations to attend a friend’s birthday party or other similar event, the parents shall attempt to accommodate the children’s desire to attend such events, regardless of which parent has care of the children at the time.
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