I could feel it happening all over again today, tired I called the Police. I do not know if it was the right thing to do but I did. I have asked her to stop - there is no comunicating. The last month+ especially it is a growing problem, she does whatever she wants, whatever she can do to get into my head. I avoid, avoid, avoid - do my own thing by the front window in the very corner of the room trying to get things done.
This afternoon I called the police. I spoke to the "dispatch" she decided it was worth sending a car - the officers took our names but naturally said this stuff is not thier thing - I pointed out "Until one is egged into touching the other and perhaps this is why I called - she is pushing every day and she is never letting up - I can't even ingnore her, she has now taken to invading my personal space, what little of of I claim for existance, what I am trying to finally complete so we can get on with this divorce.
In the end, a waste of time????? Not sure - I called dispatch back to ask a question regarding the visit - she did say a report will now be in the system. While still here, one officer finally stopped and said to her "look lady you are complaining that..... It takes two and for the last 10 minutes you haven't stopped! You haven't taken to heart anything we are trying to tell you. I can actually see where he coming from if you are doing this in front of us..... what you must be like when you are alone with him???"
They asked me to call my family doctor on Monday morning - they left. Even today am I so wrong in wanting more out of life than to be shoved into the basement 24 hours a day???? (where my son will begin to rip a hole out of me because I am now occupping his personal private space down there then) I do know it is yet another day down the drain........
This afternoon I called the police. I spoke to the "dispatch" she decided it was worth sending a car - the officers took our names but naturally said this stuff is not thier thing - I pointed out "Until one is egged into touching the other and perhaps this is why I called - she is pushing every day and she is never letting up - I can't even ingnore her, she has now taken to invading my personal space, what little of of I claim for existance, what I am trying to finally complete so we can get on with this divorce.
In the end, a waste of time????? Not sure - I called dispatch back to ask a question regarding the visit - she did say a report will now be in the system. While still here, one officer finally stopped and said to her "look lady you are complaining that..... It takes two and for the last 10 minutes you haven't stopped! You haven't taken to heart anything we are trying to tell you. I can actually see where he coming from if you are doing this in front of us..... what you must be like when you are alone with him???"
They asked me to call my family doctor on Monday morning - they left. Even today am I so wrong in wanting more out of life than to be shoved into the basement 24 hours a day???? (where my son will begin to rip a hole out of me because I am now occupping his personal private space down there then) I do know it is yet another day down the drain........
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