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Old 11-22-2013, 06:48 PM
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Hello guys. As someone knows already my situation, I will just update on it. It's been a while that mom has supervised access to the children. She now showed a rapport from a doctor that she is stable and should have her kids back.

My questions are:

1. If she can have kids unsupervised, how often would you suggest?

2.If number one going smoothly, when should she have increase of her access?


Thanks


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Old 11-22-2013, 07:40 PM
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I would start with alternate weekends.
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:44 PM
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I would start with alternate weekends.
Would you think it's to much?

I mean she had kids for couple hours only supervised Every other Saturday for 3 month approx after her suicide attempt. I do know. That's why I am asking advise here. Kind of lost on it.
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:54 PM
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I think I'd be inclined to start with a few hours on Saturdays without supervision. Let her work up to overnights. If she's going to be in their lives again, it should be weekly.

How old are the kids?
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:55 PM
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I think I'd be inclined to start with a few hours on Saturdays without supervision. Let her work up to overnights. If she's going to be in their lives again, it should be weekly.

How old are the kids?

Both under age of 2. One newborn and one toddler.


Thanks. That what I would probably put in my affidavit. Thanks a bunch.
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Old 11-22-2013, 08:11 PM
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Just read your old threads. I didn't realize the children are so young. She attempted suicide because you asked for 50/50 custody?

Have you been managing OK with the little ones the last 2 months?

At their ages, I would definitely make this a slow progression.
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Old 11-22-2013, 08:15 PM
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Just read your old threads. I didn't realize the children are so young. She attempted suicide because you asked for 50/50 custody?


YES.


Have you been managing OK with the little ones the last 2 months?


YES, they adjusted so well, even better then me.

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Old 11-22-2013, 08:31 PM
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Hello guys. As someone knows already my situation, I will just update on it. It's been a while that mom has supervised access to the children. She now showed a rapport from a doctor that she is stable and should have her kids back.

My questions are:

1. If she can have kids unsupervised, how often would you suggest?

2.If number one going smoothly, when should she have increase of her access?


Thanks


P.S Replying to the motion
I was contemplating write or not but I just can not ignore it anymore base on how much time it take from other people.

Luba please stop it ... Don't you see that you being identified ONCE AGAIN.?

If you really has report from a doctor that you are stable please send it to me ASAP. I do not think I have it in all 500+ pages you filed so far for the upcoming trial.

If you really want to ask people something real (no fake) ask this.

I had ONLY supervised visits to our son for 2 hours every Sunday since about April 2012 and decided to cancel service with Supervised Centre (so no visits at all for who knows how long). So question is

Why I would do that and how it is in the best interest of the child?

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Old 11-22-2013, 08:33 PM
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Just read your old threads. I didn't realize the children are so young. She attempted suicide because you asked for 50/50 custody?


YES.


Have you been managing OK with the little ones the last 2 months?


YES, they adjusted so well, even better then me.

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If there is one person here that is NOT well adjusted, it's you. Your absolute denial to recognize reality is scary and I am glad that there is someone else looking out for the best interests of the child(ren).
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Old 11-22-2013, 08:34 PM
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Oh boy. Did I get sucked into something?
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