Ex-wife wants to change schedule and I don't
Here some background
-kids are 5 boy and 8 girl
-we been separated/divorced for 2.5 years
-our separation agreement has the current schedule
Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Mom Mom Dad Mom Mom Dad Dad
Me 3 days a week
Mom 4 days a week
I am a fully involved father on weekends. I've done trips and given the kids experiences that I only dreamed of as a kid.
In summary, the ex-wife wants to change the schedule so that she has the kids every second Saturday, in exchange for a Monday. I've suggested an exchange an alternating Saturday for a Friday the following week, but she says a flat out no and takes it as an insult.
On Saturday's I only get them a 4pm which is already half the day gone.
Over the course of the last 2 years, some of our conversations have not been very good.
i) We have both argued in front of the kids.
ii) She has called the police to give me a warning that I was harrassing her by calling her at night to discuss issues. Can I call harassement on her, it not like she hung up the phone and didn't harrass me at the same time. (6 months ago)
iii) Once, I had a run in with the ex's boyfriend when he and her dropped the kids off at my condo. Kids saw me arguing through a the window, but they didn't hear anything (1.5 years ago)
Anyways, she has said she will use this against me mediation/court to change the schedule. (even though it has nothing to do with the schedule)
Can she use this against me and if we go to mediation and to court?
What are the chances of her being able to change the schedule after 2.5 years of status quo?
thanks you for your help.
Here some background
-kids are 5 boy and 8 girl
-we been separated/divorced for 2.5 years
-our separation agreement has the current schedule
Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Mom Mom Dad Mom Mom Dad Dad
Me 3 days a week
Mom 4 days a week
I am a fully involved father on weekends. I've done trips and given the kids experiences that I only dreamed of as a kid.
In summary, the ex-wife wants to change the schedule so that she has the kids every second Saturday, in exchange for a Monday. I've suggested an exchange an alternating Saturday for a Friday the following week, but she says a flat out no and takes it as an insult.
On Saturday's I only get them a 4pm which is already half the day gone.
Over the course of the last 2 years, some of our conversations have not been very good.
i) We have both argued in front of the kids.
ii) She has called the police to give me a warning that I was harrassing her by calling her at night to discuss issues. Can I call harassement on her, it not like she hung up the phone and didn't harrass me at the same time. (6 months ago)
iii) Once, I had a run in with the ex's boyfriend when he and her dropped the kids off at my condo. Kids saw me arguing through a the window, but they didn't hear anything (1.5 years ago)
Anyways, she has said she will use this against me mediation/court to change the schedule. (even though it has nothing to do with the schedule)
Can she use this against me and if we go to mediation and to court?
What are the chances of her being able to change the schedule after 2.5 years of status quo?
thanks you for your help.
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