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Originally posted by wretchedotis View Post
Sadly the pattern that we see as an extension of this article:
-The husband continue to love his wife and live his marriage for her and to an extent his kids.
-The wife becomes a mom, and changes... now she lives her marriage for the children, putting them ahead of everything, especially her partner and to an extent herself.
-The husband is living for the wife, the wife is living for the kids but no one is really looking out for the husband anymore... Fast forward several years and watch how easily things will fall apart. For example, when the husband meets someone who cares about his needs again.
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I'm not justifying adultery. My point remains that the article about living the marriage for the other person is naive in assuming that it will be reciprocated once "real life" happens which includes kids.
Unfortunately we don't live in magical Christmas land with glitter farting unicorns where the two spouses continue to put each other first every day forever.
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Originally posted by FightingForFamily View PostI'm not justifying adultery. My point remains that the article about living the marriage for the other person is naive in assuming that it will be reciprocated once "real life" happens which includes kids.
Unfortunately we don't live in magical Christmas land with glitter farting unicorns where the two spouses continue to put each other first every day forever.
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Originally posted by Janibel View PostI take it that you were not a teenager in the 70's?
I'm not justifying adultery. My point remains that the article about living the marriage for the other person is naive in assuming that it will be reciprocated once "real life" happens which includes kids.Start a discussion, not a fire. Post with kindness.
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