So my daughter's counsellor and the association she works through (a child psychologist, and an aboriginal elder, child and youth workers, and counsellors) wrote a letter to support my custody and access. They wrote that mom's statements made by them are false, that they have no disclosure of abuse, that they support my home, and that after their work with mom, dad, step mom, and child, they recommend that the current access schedule stay in place, but that dad have sole responsibility, also limits on access during school year as mom has provided child late or withheld her every school day she has been custodial parent since January.
I have been making offers to settle but in mom's affidavit she tries to use the offers against me saying that it show I am trying to work with her and therefor we should have shared custody (to be clear I did make offers that expanded current access but not to a shared school year, a shared holiday schedule, and 4 non consecutive weeks in summer to mom) But in every offer I said sole as the situation is not working. She is making false claims on what the offers I am making are. With provisions about child attending school, camp, and therapy.
She became very upset crying at the counsellors and making a big deal. I would like to send her an offer again as now that she has the professionals opinions she may be more willing to work out a deal....but am I just giving her more ammunition to say that we should have shared custody and joint decision making?
I have been making offers to settle but in mom's affidavit she tries to use the offers against me saying that it show I am trying to work with her and therefor we should have shared custody (to be clear I did make offers that expanded current access but not to a shared school year, a shared holiday schedule, and 4 non consecutive weeks in summer to mom) But in every offer I said sole as the situation is not working. She is making false claims on what the offers I am making are. With provisions about child attending school, camp, and therapy.
She became very upset crying at the counsellors and making a big deal. I would like to send her an offer again as now that she has the professionals opinions she may be more willing to work out a deal....but am I just giving her more ammunition to say that we should have shared custody and joint decision making?
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