I came across a really old, very long post that I found interesting and thought I would start the same to see what the current member think:
Putting aside all the negative things about divorce/separation, what are the good things that have come from it for you?
I no longer walk around tense all the time. That took quite some time to go away, and it would come back under certain circumstances. I didnt realize until it was over how much i had altered myself to work around someone else's mood. Now I can be myself
I have complete control over my finances which I love!!! Overall I am poorer for sure, just from having 1 income in 1 household. But at least I can make my own decisions that are my decisions.
I love being able to be in my own house and eat what I want without criticism, cook what I want,
I love have 1 less person to clean up after and do everything for. My own fault for getting into that state to begin with I know. But it is still nice to not have a make a dentist appointment for another adult or do their laundry.
The bottom line, I do not regret it at all.
Putting aside all the negative things about divorce/separation, what are the good things that have come from it for you?
I no longer walk around tense all the time. That took quite some time to go away, and it would come back under certain circumstances. I didnt realize until it was over how much i had altered myself to work around someone else's mood. Now I can be myself
I have complete control over my finances which I love!!! Overall I am poorer for sure, just from having 1 income in 1 household. But at least I can make my own decisions that are my decisions.
I love being able to be in my own house and eat what I want without criticism, cook what I want,
I love have 1 less person to clean up after and do everything for. My own fault for getting into that state to begin with I know. But it is still nice to not have a make a dentist appointment for another adult or do their laundry.
The bottom line, I do not regret it at all.
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