Hi all,
Last Thursday, my gf emailed me saying that she would stop at my ex to pick up the kids as her appointment should be over just before my access time. Great idea I said because it would prevent me from doing 40 minutes of drive and save on gas. So I send a message to my son to let him know that my gf would pick them up with her car.
I then got a call from my gf to let me know that my ex didn't want to let the kids go because she didn't know my gf. I've been with my gf for over two years now and she know her. She dislike her and have no intention of meeting with her. So I had to take my van and drive there to pick up my kids... 30 minutes later.
When I got there, my ex came out watching on the balcony while I was securing my Daughter with the seatbelt and just before I drove away, she gave me the "Finger". Like she was telling me "Hey... I am the one who rules the show here! So F*ck Off!"
What is the big deal? If I can use an alternative to accommodate myself and save on time and money... what is the issue? If I get sick and cannot drive during my parental time, does it mean I cannot get someone else to do the pick up at my place? Is it not my responsability to find another way to exercice my parental time?
This is another behavior of my ex to make the conflict more difficult. The worst is that we are just a few weeks from our trial.
Why would she act like that just before the matter is heard? Is she conscious that she loses points in wanting a reaction from me? Because this is my intuition, she is trying desperately to have a reply from me.
Last Thursday, my gf emailed me saying that she would stop at my ex to pick up the kids as her appointment should be over just before my access time. Great idea I said because it would prevent me from doing 40 minutes of drive and save on gas. So I send a message to my son to let him know that my gf would pick them up with her car.
I then got a call from my gf to let me know that my ex didn't want to let the kids go because she didn't know my gf. I've been with my gf for over two years now and she know her. She dislike her and have no intention of meeting with her. So I had to take my van and drive there to pick up my kids... 30 minutes later.
When I got there, my ex came out watching on the balcony while I was securing my Daughter with the seatbelt and just before I drove away, she gave me the "Finger". Like she was telling me "Hey... I am the one who rules the show here! So F*ck Off!"
What is the big deal? If I can use an alternative to accommodate myself and save on time and money... what is the issue? If I get sick and cannot drive during my parental time, does it mean I cannot get someone else to do the pick up at my place? Is it not my responsability to find another way to exercice my parental time?
This is another behavior of my ex to make the conflict more difficult. The worst is that we are just a few weeks from our trial.
Why would she act like that just before the matter is heard? Is she conscious that she loses points in wanting a reaction from me? Because this is my intuition, she is trying desperately to have a reply from me.
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