I understand all the case law etc etc. After all so many posters have experienced stupid and unfair rulings by archaic judges who seem to often not read the evidence presented.
But I read that this poster was concerned that his son 11 did not want to visit for 6 weeks and he was putting it all the the Mother because in his eyes she is not forcing the child to spend 6 weeks 400 miles away from his friends.
I see that Dad feels he has done the right thing by providing Day camps in arrears of the child's interest. So why would he not want to come.
He does not want to come because he is 40@ miles from his buddies, his favourite hang out places. Maybe one of his buddies sleepovers in the backyard or a birthday party. Yeah I know life sucks especially when your parents screwed up and got divorced. So now you have to suffer and yes it's suffer because Dad has the right to have 6 weeks of the summer and while it's great if he is around most of the time you are stuck in a "stupid daycamp" with a bunch of guys you don't know!
So all the rights and all the laws in the world do matter to the kid who is forced to " enjoy" the parenting time. I very much doubt any of those judges had to endure 6 weeks away every summer
Anyway, enough ranting. Try speaking with some young people who have no sayin their screwed up lives created by their selfish parents.
I did and 100% said - "I hate it". "As soon as I can I will choose where I spend my summers". And all these young people loved and enjoyed both their parents. Jus all hated how their summers sucked!
But I read that this poster was concerned that his son 11 did not want to visit for 6 weeks and he was putting it all the the Mother because in his eyes she is not forcing the child to spend 6 weeks 400 miles away from his friends.
I see that Dad feels he has done the right thing by providing Day camps in arrears of the child's interest. So why would he not want to come.
He does not want to come because he is 40@ miles from his buddies, his favourite hang out places. Maybe one of his buddies sleepovers in the backyard or a birthday party. Yeah I know life sucks especially when your parents screwed up and got divorced. So now you have to suffer and yes it's suffer because Dad has the right to have 6 weeks of the summer and while it's great if he is around most of the time you are stuck in a "stupid daycamp" with a bunch of guys you don't know!
So all the rights and all the laws in the world do matter to the kid who is forced to " enjoy" the parenting time. I very much doubt any of those judges had to endure 6 weeks away every summer
Anyway, enough ranting. Try speaking with some young people who have no sayin their screwed up lives created by their selfish parents.
I did and 100% said - "I hate it". "As soon as I can I will choose where I spend my summers". And all these young people loved and enjoyed both their parents. Jus all hated how their summers sucked!
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