I'm thinking of looking into using ourfamilywizard. Does anyone have any input based on personal experience with utilizing this tool?
My ex will likely NOT go for it. He probably won't even look at it. Hard to say. I'm told I can sign up for it, and include his email address but obviously I can't make him use it. Given that we do not ever speak, and that there are some issues that need addressing from time to time re: S13, I think it would be a good idea. Currently (and in the past) the ex communicates (usually to S13 via Text Msg) things like - "can't see you this weekend" (cancels some of his access weekends) or "can I get you from school early on (ie) Friday" (because he and his wife and kids are going out of town/roadtrip) etc. Suffice it to say, often I am the last to know about the change in plans. Not very convenient besides being obviously disrespectful towards me.
Recently, although included in our custody/access order - he told S13 that he would no longer be able to pick him up on Wednesdays afterschool b/c he's "very busy" and b/c his wife is bitching at him for not being home more to help with the (very young) kids.
There's other things too, but just thought I'd include a few true examples, verbatim, for 'flavor.'
Any thoughts?
My ex will likely NOT go for it. He probably won't even look at it. Hard to say. I'm told I can sign up for it, and include his email address but obviously I can't make him use it. Given that we do not ever speak, and that there are some issues that need addressing from time to time re: S13, I think it would be a good idea. Currently (and in the past) the ex communicates (usually to S13 via Text Msg) things like - "can't see you this weekend" (cancels some of his access weekends) or "can I get you from school early on (ie) Friday" (because he and his wife and kids are going out of town/roadtrip) etc. Suffice it to say, often I am the last to know about the change in plans. Not very convenient besides being obviously disrespectful towards me.
Recently, although included in our custody/access order - he told S13 that he would no longer be able to pick him up on Wednesdays afterschool b/c he's "very busy" and b/c his wife is bitching at him for not being home more to help with the (very young) kids.
There's other things too, but just thought I'd include a few true examples, verbatim, for 'flavor.'
Any thoughts?
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