EX has EOW access to S13. He has cancelled his access weekends in past with or without requesting other times. Yesterday he advised S13 (he never advises me) that this wknd coming up, he's "busy." Suggests to S13 that perhaps the following wkend will work and has S13 ask me. Well, it doesn't "work" - I'm not taking any issue w/this wknd being cancelled as far as my EX is concerned. I haven't said a word. Am I obligated in any way to accommodate this or any other switches?
S13 is unconcerned whether he goes or not. EX is busy "renovating" his house. He's been doing so for months. Whatever the case: child is NOT going this wknd and I am not prepared to throw off the entire access schedule (which is always to suit him) on this. I've done so a few times in the past, but I have plans w/my son the weekend that he has suggested, and I'm not going to change them. If my son was hell bent on going, that would perhaps sway me to accommodate EX. But he's not. And quite frankly, I'm tired of the bs, this (issue at hand) being the least of it. Go ahead and hit me with your thoughts on this. Really, what I want to know is: DO I have to accommodate these changes in the wind, that happen frequently or can I just stick to the schedule and be well within the "right" side of this?
S13 is unconcerned whether he goes or not. EX is busy "renovating" his house. He's been doing so for months. Whatever the case: child is NOT going this wknd and I am not prepared to throw off the entire access schedule (which is always to suit him) on this. I've done so a few times in the past, but I have plans w/my son the weekend that he has suggested, and I'm not going to change them. If my son was hell bent on going, that would perhaps sway me to accommodate EX. But he's not. And quite frankly, I'm tired of the bs, this (issue at hand) being the least of it. Go ahead and hit me with your thoughts on this. Really, what I want to know is: DO I have to accommodate these changes in the wind, that happen frequently or can I just stick to the schedule and be well within the "right" side of this?
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