My STBX has a very angry and aggressive personality. His body language speaks volumes, and he doesn't do much to control it. This morning he texted me to pick up our oldest son 15 mins earlier than usual. I was walking the dog and didn't get the text until he was there waiting. Before I arrived from the dog walk, he yelled at our caregiver in front of our son, and threw a few things on the floor (coat, etc., that was laid out for child to wear). This is a new caregiver and she told me she was scared and afraid now of my STBX. Also when I was approaching the house, he came out gesticulating wildly and yelling at me - in front of my other 2 kids in the car. When I saw him I turned and walked away with the dog. A car slowed down as it was passing us, presumably because they saw STBX approaching me like a crazy man.
What can I do to keep my kids from being a part of this crazy animosity and aggressive behaviour? I'm living in the marital home, so he still has access, and any mention of courtesy when entering involves him exploding into 'IT'S MY HOUSE TOO' rants. Suggestions?
What can I do to keep my kids from being a part of this crazy animosity and aggressive behaviour? I'm living in the marital home, so he still has access, and any mention of courtesy when entering involves him exploding into 'IT'S MY HOUSE TOO' rants. Suggestions?
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