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01-28-2013, 10:19 AM
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OCL did their assessment in my case and found most things in my favour and disproved a lot of the lies in the respondent, my ex, motions. She has also recommended joint custody and fairly decent access, mush better than the temporary order. my ex stalled a lot in the investigation. she wouldnt acknowledge receipt of copies of the documents i sent to OCL and wouldnt even pick up the registered mail i sent. Does anyone know if it is worth doing a motion to get the temporary access order changed based on the stalling and OCL report. She has a lawyer so if the motion is denied i will be stuck with her costs.
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01-28-2013, 02:05 PM
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How much parenting time/access do you have and how long has it been in place? |
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01-28-2013, 02:22 PM
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The OCL has suggested every other weekend from Friday after school to Monday morning pick up at school and Wednesday from after school to Thursday drop off at school. The current order has been in place since April 2012 after 8 month court battle where I had almost no access at all. Access has been withheld for illness aproximately 50% of my weekends and this has now stopped since the OCL report was released saying our daughter is at risk of PAS. The other party used many tactics to stall the investigation including refusing to acknowledge receipts of documents I had sent to the investigater and sending the investigater 200 pages of documents 1 week before scheduled discovery and not sending me copies. Discovery was cancelled and OCL report was supposed to be released in November was not released until January 1013. Thanks |
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01-28-2013, 04:16 PM
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You should be consistently trying to increase access, in every way, as often as reasonably possible, until you have achieved 50/50. Why would you not?
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01-28-2013, 05:07 PM
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02-03-2013, 10:13 PM
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In my case I went to the court. Judge asked us to fillout the intake form and he asked the OCL to investigate. I had the kids for full sole custody then OCL involved and gave me the report that my x-wife have the sole custodyand no way for the shared custody. After 20min that gave me the consent to sign that they are going to give me JOINT Custody and it will review after one year?
I am afraid what is going to happen to me? Help Me. |
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02-03-2013, 10:30 PM
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Private message me.
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02-03-2013, 11:01 PM
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Frankly, for parents with shared custody where both parents are gainfully employed, it is very difficult to make it cost-effective to go to court. However, for those parents who do not have custody and are paying table support, I think it makes financial sense to fight every year for custody until the ex has successfully alienated the kids from you. Oh, and if you have somehow been convinced that you are not a good parent, get over it. Being a parent is very easy. Many uneducated, lower quartile intelligence humans with functional reproductive organs become parents every day. If they can do it, so can you. That crap about how a parent is the hardest job in the world is some of the worst propaganda ever made. It is easy and rewarding... trust me, you want it. I'm not sure why you are so convinced you are going to lose. |
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02-05-2013, 08:57 PM
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i dont think i am going to lose in the long run. I think i will win because she has withheld access and there is proof, the ocl found a police report where she admits she has withheld access plus she wrote a letter to the school saying she has sole custody and i am to have no access. i just dont know if i will win a motion asking for a change to the temp access order pending trial. oh and i have her on tape threatening me with legal and i said how will you pay and she said i have money put away. i gave her all the money in the marriage and she paid bills and saved for our family
 i cant get legal aid because i own the house she is living in with our child. she is asking for sole possession of the house. i told her i will give it to her if she signs that she wont move our child out of the house for 5 years and if she does i want my half. she refused and just wants it anyway. she is asking for the court to give it to her.l
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02-05-2013, 10:12 PM
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Perhaps you meant "exclusive possession"? That would be when she lives in the house, but you still own it. The way you wrote the above it sounded like you were considering an unequal division of marital assets (namely, giving her the house). If she is asking for exclusive possession, she will probably have to accuse you of domestic violence first. Either way, I would just get the house sold on the market now. Send a registered letter saying that you want to list the house, or you want to be bought out within X days. You get the cash you need to fight your legal battle, and don't have to worry about costs. I think you need to get to court, and you need representation while in court. I don't think you understand the laws well enough to adequately defend yourself. |
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