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I know its a joke and funny. But the real moment for you will be when you don't care about the ex one way or another. Because as long as you care, they have power over you. My ex is the mom to my kids, so I do hope she is stable and on her meds. But I don't care that she is engaged to someone else (well my wallet would like them to get married quick). I only care insofar as it affects the kids.
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Despite all the nonsense from my ex, I can honestly say I don't hate him at all and don't really wish him ill. He doesn't need my help in that regard anyway, he's his own worst enemy.
I do wish he was a better father but I can't do much about that. I just don't feel anything for him and can no longer remember a time when I did.
I always find it strange when people are extremely interested or obsessive about what their ex is doing in their life or what their ex thinks. I have zero interest in anything my ex is doing and don't care about his opinion on anything. I know almost nothing about him now and truthfully, didn't know or care much about what he was doing even when we were still married.
I think holding on to resentment, hate or bitterness towards your ex really hampers your ability to move on with your life in a healthy way.
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Originally posted by DowntroddenDad View PostI know its a joke and funny. But the real moment for you will be when you don't care about the ex one way or another. Because as long as you care, they have power over you. My ex is the mom to my kids, so I do hope she is stable and on her meds. But I don't care that she is engaged to someone else (well my wallet would like them to get married quick). I only care insofar as it affects the kids.
Indifference is the opposite of love. To be able, in time, to disconnect from your ex, to be detached from feeling any intense emotions for this person, is going to be your best road to healing and moving on.
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Originally posted by DowntroddenDad View PostI know its a joke and funny. But the real moment for you will be when you don't care about the ex one way or another. Because as long as you care, they have power over you. My ex is the mom to my kids, so I do hope she is stable and on her meds. But I don't care that she is engaged to someone else (well my wallet would like them to get married quick). I only care insofar as it affects the kids.
He isn't involved in my daughter's life at all, but holds on to joint custody like it's an investment or something.
It didn't take a lot to get over him, but he's sure making it difficult to move past him. Hopefully in January, I'll be a step closer to closing the book on him altogether.
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Originally posted by arabian View PostI agree PH. I don't hate my ex at all. That would give him too much power over me. If anything, I pity him as he too is his own worst enemy.
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This post is lame, especially if your ex is the father of your children - as much as i dislike my ex, its probably outweighed by my pity for her and the harm that comes to my children whenever bad things befall her (which happens a lot). Get a life.
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Originally posted by Links17 View PostThis post is lame, especially if your ex is the father of your children - as much as i dislike my ex, its probably outweighed by my pity for her and the harm that comes to my children whenever bad things befall her (which happens a lot). Get a life.
Lame?
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