Can someone help give me insight to what constitutes as neglect? Physical and emotional and what can be done when it's suspected of the other parent
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OACAS: Child Welfare: Signs of Abuse
The above site might help to provide definitions.
Often times a frank, non accusatory, discussion with the OP can help and clear up matters. Depends on your situation.
If its bad you can contact your local CAS office. If you have a lawyer and can afford their consult, you can review your concerns with them- keeping in mind they have a legal duty to report.
Without knowing the situation it is difficult to provide further suggestions. I hope it all goes ok.
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Thanks for the link.... this answered my questions and concerns-
Most caregivers do not intend to neglect their children. It usually results from ignorance about appropriate care for children or an ability to plan ahead.
Neglect occurs when a caregiver fails to provide basic needs such as adequate food, sleep, safety, supervision, clothing or medical treatment.
Behavioural indicators
pale, listless, unkempt
frequent absence from school
inappropriate clothing for the weather, dirty clothes
Physical indicators
poor hygiene
unattended physical problems or medical needs, eg dental work, glasses
consistent lack of supervision
So now what? All of these are very evident in my case and I don't know what to do or my next step.... no lawyer dont want one but something needs to be done!
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If you haven't already you could point out the issue with the OP. I know, more than likely not going to help. The OP sounds like he/she needs help to be a better parent.
You can call CAS anonymously. Dial *67 before you dial or use a pay phone. You can try this route and get their advice as to how to proceed.
The child's safety is paramount. You may just want to call CAS and disclose all your concerns. They have the authority to force supervised access, help the OP be a better parent by forcing required courses or suspending parenting time. They can also get help for the child to lessen any long term affects.
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I have attempted on several occasions to raise my concerns, but I have to deal with a high conflict individual who always lies and tries to cover up their story. And tells me constantly that it's not their problem that I am having issues with the child
But this is affecting our child and in just the short few months have brought the child in to the doctors with different infections all that occured and went ignored while in the op's care.
I feel like im pinned between two rocks.
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Originally posted by tugofwar View Post
Behavioural indicators
pale, listless, unkempt
frequent absence from school
inappropriate clothing for the weather, dirty clothes
Physical indicators
poor hygiene
unattended physical problems or medical needs, eg dental work, glasses
consistent lack of supervisionOriginally posted by tugofwar View PostSo now what? All of these are very evident in my case and I don't know what to do or my next step.... no lawyer dont want one but something needs to be done!
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How do I get all documented proof? I only have responses that are lies.... its hard to think while treating and taking care of the child to run and get the camera to take pictures of their private spots etc. My priority is to take care of it... no questions asked. That's what good parents do!
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I believe your only option would be to call CAS or speak with the child's doctor about your concerns. The family doctor also has a legal duty to report.
As parents we have a duty to protect our children. Even if that means valid protection from their OP.
It's still difficult to determine which route you should go based on what info you have provided. While its not necessary to disclose it all, only you know your situation in its entirety.
One could argue that children get sick and some parents overreact or under react when they do.
Is it the child's first year of school, did they start at a new day care? These are unknowns.
If your still not sure and its related to illnesses, make an appointment with the child's doctor and speak to him/her about your concerns pronto.
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The child went to the family doctor, I did not suspect abuse, just neglect on attending to private parts that were swollen, inflammed, red and alittle raw... which still uncertain how it developed and the child is no longer in diapers hasn't been for a few years.....Last edited by tugofwar; 10-02-2012, 10:43 PM.
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Originally posted by blinkandimgone View PostOhMy:
Um...kids get infections, yes...on their private parts: diaper rash, yeast infections, poison ivy, all kinds of things. Doesn't necessarily indicate abuse but can be neglect . don't go jumping to conclusions or trying to raise alarm bells wi
thout knowing.
Not trying to argue and please see my prior post. As a parent I am aware of what things children can get in their private spots, as a health care professional, I also know this as well.
The poster has some serious concerns, alludes abuse and sought advice.
Neglect is abuse.
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Thank You Ohmy. That's the question I have been asking myself... it keeps getting worse instead of better and even after I raised my concerns, they are still ignorant to attending to the needs of the child while in their care. They are not aware that even pawning the child off on someone else, they are still the responsible person in the situation.
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Originally posted by tugofwar View PostThe child went to the family doctor, I did not suspect abuse, just neglect on attending to private parts that were swollen, inflammed, red and alittle raw... which still uncertain how it developed and the child is no longer in diapers hasn't been for a few years.....
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Originally posted by tugofwar View PostThank You Ohmy. That's the question I have been asking myself... it keeps getting worse instead of better and even after I raised my concerns, they are still ignorant to attending to the needs of the child while in their care. They are not aware that even pawning the child off on someone else, they are still the responsible person in the situation.
Personally, I would call CAS anonymously giving no ones name and explain the situation, then decide which route you want to take.
Best of luck. The worry of wondering if your child is being properly cared for is not a pleasurable one.
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