Another poster described this as dysfunctional.
Think of it this way: you and ex are using your child as a medium to debate whether or not tylenol should go in the fridge.
Yes, your ex shouldn’t have sent the tylenol or storage instruction. And you shouldn’t debate with child or show the label to prove the point you are right. You are both contributing to the debate and you are both doing it through the child.
Pick your battles. If can’t tell and are too emotional to tell them just don’t say anything to child bounce you concern off a friend (not the kind who tells you want to hear) or use this forum and never send an email in the heat of the moment, wait until the next day to read it
Think of it this way: you and ex are using your child as a medium to debate whether or not tylenol should go in the fridge.
Yes, your ex shouldn’t have sent the tylenol or storage instruction. And you shouldn’t debate with child or show the label to prove the point you are right. You are both contributing to the debate and you are both doing it through the child.
Pick your battles. If can’t tell and are too emotional to tell them just don’t say anything to child bounce you concern off a friend (not the kind who tells you want to hear) or use this forum and never send an email in the heat of the moment, wait until the next day to read it
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