Say, you asked the other party why do they think 50/50 or at least an increase of the existent eow + mid week access is not good fro the child in their view.
What would you say if the other party would tell something like this (copy of the original text including punctuation as it is):
"Also on the subject of access when Xxxxxx grows up around age 10-12 she is going to be a big girl and can make decisions on her own yes defintely if she wants to live with you more than what the arrangement is right now I wont mind it. but it has to be her decision right now it is what is best for her since she cant tell me whats going on and how she feels about it she is too little for that arragnment that you are requesting. but in the future i can say 50% but defintely IF SHE wants to go more often it is her choice."
I hope you can agree with me that it is going to be her choice and you cant do anything about it weather she would want to spend more time with me or you.
I am honestly lost for words (for polite ones at least). How to respond?
What would you say if the other party would tell something like this (copy of the original text including punctuation as it is):
"Also on the subject of access when Xxxxxx grows up around age 10-12 she is going to be a big girl and can make decisions on her own yes defintely if she wants to live with you more than what the arrangement is right now I wont mind it. but it has to be her decision right now it is what is best for her since she cant tell me whats going on and how she feels about it she is too little for that arragnment that you are requesting. but in the future i can say 50% but defintely IF SHE wants to go more often it is her choice."
I hope you can agree with me that it is going to be her choice and you cant do anything about it weather she would want to spend more time with me or you.
I am honestly lost for words (for polite ones at least). How to respond?
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