I'm not sure if he sees Kid as a way to make money off me (he's already getting offset CS and S7). I think it may be more that these money squabbles are the only ways left for him to get at me. I've moved on, have a nice home, a long-term relationship with a great guy, a successful professional life, a circle of friends, and a strong and fun parental bond with Kid - none of which I had when we were married. The only thing ex can do to get my attention these days is throw fits about money every few weeks. Unfortunately, after a 20 year whacked-out marriage, his fit-throwing can still hit me emotionally and it's sometimes hard to think clearly. This forum is very useful in helping me to sort out what is worth responding to and what is just nonsense.
(I just got the anticipated ranting email about how greedy and arrogant I am because I don't agree that ski boots are an S7 expense, complete with vague threats about "weighing his options very carefully". Another one that doesn't need a response).
(I just got the anticipated ranting email about how greedy and arrogant I am because I don't agree that ski boots are an S7 expense, complete with vague threats about "weighing his options very carefully". Another one that doesn't need a response).
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