Hi I was served and only have a x number of days to respond. He is only asking for a divorce judgement and nothing else. However, there are a couple of things wrong with the papers. First he is way off on the dates, we married Aug 2008, I left in Feb of 2011 and fled to where my grown children live. He followed me and we briefly reconciled and then I left in Nov of 2011. He put that we ceased cohabiting in Feb of 2010. And secondly, my maiden name is spelled wrong. Do these matter.
So a little more, after we married it was like a switch and he got very controlling and abusive. He bullied and made me into a submissive scared little girl. He has a temper that went from 0 to 100 within seconds and anything and everything would trigger an outburst.
So he bullied me into changing all my banking info and I moved my banking info into his. So he controlled all the monies of what or did not get paid. Needless to say he paid his and neglected to pay mine and then say I hid all my bills from him. Now I have collections after me harrassing for monies. Just after we got married it came out he had collections after him so we dealt with that and he was able to get a build his credit on behave of me.
Like I said he is a bully and would do and say many discriminating things to keep me in my place. He would break stuff, always mine, and then proceed to throw me outside with my belongings. Like garbage. But then he says women are stupid and only for men to use as they please. And I mean sexually too.
So when we reconciled he managed to buy himself an older mobile trailer. I lived there for 4 months and I contributed to pay for half of fees. My name was not put on the title or bank loan just for the rental at trailer park cuz loan officer said that it would hurt his chances cuz my credit is so bad.
So I guess I am wondering if I can make him pay for my finincial woes, do I have any rights to his mobile trailer or do i suck it up and cut my losses and thank God that I was lucky to get out when I did. Personally I want him to pay big time just because of the way he was. He threaten me all the time Lots of times my arms had bruises to defend myself. I never did call authorities, I tried once and payed for it he broke my phone. Hes kicked me out of the house many times with all my belonging even in the winter with nothing on. He has left me stranded many times and with no money or food. We team drove,long haul, and left me at truck stops or places we picked product up.
I was his third wife he was my second. We have no children together. Thank goodness. We met in March or 2008 and married of August 2008. I thought he was a good strong christian with all the values i was looking for in a man. I really thought he was a gift and was totally blindsided. Like I said his temper and his need to control did not come out until after we got married.
Any advice would be appreciated even if I dont want to hear it. I just dont know what to do.
So a little more, after we married it was like a switch and he got very controlling and abusive. He bullied and made me into a submissive scared little girl. He has a temper that went from 0 to 100 within seconds and anything and everything would trigger an outburst.
So he bullied me into changing all my banking info and I moved my banking info into his. So he controlled all the monies of what or did not get paid. Needless to say he paid his and neglected to pay mine and then say I hid all my bills from him. Now I have collections after me harrassing for monies. Just after we got married it came out he had collections after him so we dealt with that and he was able to get a build his credit on behave of me.
Like I said he is a bully and would do and say many discriminating things to keep me in my place. He would break stuff, always mine, and then proceed to throw me outside with my belongings. Like garbage. But then he says women are stupid and only for men to use as they please. And I mean sexually too.
So when we reconciled he managed to buy himself an older mobile trailer. I lived there for 4 months and I contributed to pay for half of fees. My name was not put on the title or bank loan just for the rental at trailer park cuz loan officer said that it would hurt his chances cuz my credit is so bad.
So I guess I am wondering if I can make him pay for my finincial woes, do I have any rights to his mobile trailer or do i suck it up and cut my losses and thank God that I was lucky to get out when I did. Personally I want him to pay big time just because of the way he was. He threaten me all the time Lots of times my arms had bruises to defend myself. I never did call authorities, I tried once and payed for it he broke my phone. Hes kicked me out of the house many times with all my belonging even in the winter with nothing on. He has left me stranded many times and with no money or food. We team drove,long haul, and left me at truck stops or places we picked product up.
I was his third wife he was my second. We have no children together. Thank goodness. We met in March or 2008 and married of August 2008. I thought he was a good strong christian with all the values i was looking for in a man. I really thought he was a gift and was totally blindsided. Like I said his temper and his need to control did not come out until after we got married.
Any advice would be appreciated even if I dont want to hear it. I just dont know what to do.
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