Hello,
How do you keep your spirits up or maintain a positive attitude after divorce? It gets very depressing at times to realize that with the legal costs, child support, post secondary costs, kids expenses etc. my financial situation is not great. I'll probably never go on a vacation. My furniture is worn out and I don't foresee a time that I can afford to replace it. I have to save up for several months to buy new sheets for the bed. I'll never pay off my mortgage and will probably have to sell the house before I retire. After that I have no idea where I'll live, maybe I can rent a bed sitting room?
I know there are people worse off, at least I have a house and see my children regularly. But it's pretty discouraging. How do you all deal with this long term?
How do you keep your spirits up or maintain a positive attitude after divorce? It gets very depressing at times to realize that with the legal costs, child support, post secondary costs, kids expenses etc. my financial situation is not great. I'll probably never go on a vacation. My furniture is worn out and I don't foresee a time that I can afford to replace it. I have to save up for several months to buy new sheets for the bed. I'll never pay off my mortgage and will probably have to sell the house before I retire. After that I have no idea where I'll live, maybe I can rent a bed sitting room?
I know there are people worse off, at least I have a house and see my children regularly. But it's pretty discouraging. How do you all deal with this long term?
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