yes I did, and I am so sad that I allow my ex to bring me to the point of tears.
This weekend is his visitation weekend with out children. He asked for some additional time with our children because they are going camping several hours away and he wanted to make the most out of the day and get to the camp ground in good time. *normal exchange is Fri at 6p.m.
So I agreed (for th esake of our children) and told him that I would have the children ready for him to pick up at 9:30 this morning... I let him know that I would like to have them back a little early too in exchange - as we are heading out camping when they return with him... he said o.k. I emailed him last night to let him know that I would have a letter for him to sign stating that we both agreed to the change of visitaiton times as they are outside of the regular schedule. He said o.k.
He showed up this morning - and when I handed him the paper to sign he almost rejected it. He took several moniuted to read it (it was only about 8 lines long) then he held it up to my window and sribbled. He handed it back to me and he didn't even sign it with his signature - he printed his name on the line. Seriously??? why on earth can't he just grow up!! I poiltely asked whe wouldnt "sign" the paper and he said "that's my name, that's my signature -take it or leave it"... Our children were standing off to the side, so of course I wouldnt make a scene with them there.
My point is I am so sad that there are never any consquences to his behaviour. This is just one example - I have so many more... He knows that he can just keep getting away with things because there is nothing I can do but keep going back to court. Even when the court orders something of him.. he doesnt follow! I am sad.
I have sole custody - but you would never know it!
This weekend is his visitation weekend with out children. He asked for some additional time with our children because they are going camping several hours away and he wanted to make the most out of the day and get to the camp ground in good time. *normal exchange is Fri at 6p.m.
So I agreed (for th esake of our children) and told him that I would have the children ready for him to pick up at 9:30 this morning... I let him know that I would like to have them back a little early too in exchange - as we are heading out camping when they return with him... he said o.k. I emailed him last night to let him know that I would have a letter for him to sign stating that we both agreed to the change of visitaiton times as they are outside of the regular schedule. He said o.k.
He showed up this morning - and when I handed him the paper to sign he almost rejected it. He took several moniuted to read it (it was only about 8 lines long) then he held it up to my window and sribbled. He handed it back to me and he didn't even sign it with his signature - he printed his name on the line. Seriously??? why on earth can't he just grow up!! I poiltely asked whe wouldnt "sign" the paper and he said "that's my name, that's my signature -take it or leave it"... Our children were standing off to the side, so of course I wouldnt make a scene with them there.
My point is I am so sad that there are never any consquences to his behaviour. This is just one example - I have so many more... He knows that he can just keep getting away with things because there is nothing I can do but keep going back to court. Even when the court orders something of him.. he doesnt follow! I am sad.
I have sole custody - but you would never know it!
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