After a 2 1/2 year separation, I told my stbx that I wanted a divorce. He got very upset, and told me I had blindsided him, then left. The last few days, he's been acting super-nice, wanting to come over, asking how I am, etc.
He is very controlling, and it was extremely hard to detach from him (I bought a condo when I left.)
I am not a very assertive person, but I need some support that will help me to stand my ground with him. I asked him to meet me today, and will be seeing him this afternoon. I intend to reiterate my intention to start divorce proceedings. I get butterflies in my stomach every time I think of it!
Our children are adults, so although they must be kept in the loop as to what is going on, there are no custody issues, thank God.
Any words of wisdom or advice would be of great help.
He is very controlling, and it was extremely hard to detach from him (I bought a condo when I left.)
I am not a very assertive person, but I need some support that will help me to stand my ground with him. I asked him to meet me today, and will be seeing him this afternoon. I intend to reiterate my intention to start divorce proceedings. I get butterflies in my stomach every time I think of it!
Our children are adults, so although they must be kept in the loop as to what is going on, there are no custody issues, thank God.
Any words of wisdom or advice would be of great help.
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