Getting my life back
Might have added to this thread some weeks back but I just thought of some more stuff,
1. Being able to spend time with the children
2. Being able to call my family in England without having anyone listening in
3. Not having to hear that I don't know how to take care of the children properly by him, by his parents and his extended family
4. Being able to buy groceries with my own money without having to ask permission on how I can spend my earnings
5. Being able to eat fish and meat in my own home if I want
6. Being able to open the utility bills and other mail addressed to me without getting yelled at for doing so
7. Being able to water the lawn
8. Not have to attend weddings and parties of people I don't know every weekend
9. Being able to read a book in bed if I want
10. Being able to listen to music I enjoy
11 Being able to speak to strangers and say hello
12. Not having to hear about how England, UK (where I was born and grew up) is the most awful place on earth by his parents
13. Being able to get a Christmas Tree for the kids at Christmas
14. Getting my life, freedom and confidence back.
No regrets for getting divorced. For those of you going through it, it is not easy going through separation and divorce but it does get better. You will look back one day and know that you made the right decision for yourself and the children.
Nadia
Might have added to this thread some weeks back but I just thought of some more stuff,
1. Being able to spend time with the children
2. Being able to call my family in England without having anyone listening in
3. Not having to hear that I don't know how to take care of the children properly by him, by his parents and his extended family
4. Being able to buy groceries with my own money without having to ask permission on how I can spend my earnings
5. Being able to eat fish and meat in my own home if I want
6. Being able to open the utility bills and other mail addressed to me without getting yelled at for doing so
7. Being able to water the lawn
8. Not have to attend weddings and parties of people I don't know every weekend
9. Being able to read a book in bed if I want
10. Being able to listen to music I enjoy
11 Being able to speak to strangers and say hello
12. Not having to hear about how England, UK (where I was born and grew up) is the most awful place on earth by his parents
13. Being able to get a Christmas Tree for the kids at Christmas
14. Getting my life, freedom and confidence back.
No regrets for getting divorced. For those of you going through it, it is not easy going through separation and divorce but it does get better. You will look back one day and know that you made the right decision for yourself and the children.
Nadia
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