It really is about the girls being comfortable and they just came trotting in the house from school with a few friends and are presently baking.
Our worker and their counsellor said that they expressed some hesitation after the fact (about staying tonight), but we'll let it ride and if it comes to fruition organically, great. If they ask to go to their mom's, the suggestion is that I allow it to happen. And I will. The intention still being to move in the present direction but be paying attention to what they express as well. The worker is leary of their pushback after slbeing at OP for a couple of days, so if tonight doesn't work, she has a bit of a new plan if need be.
I'm hoping we're a go, but if not, it will come, and until then, I'll have a pile of questionable baking to eat (made with smiles at home...that ain't bad ☺)
Our worker and their counsellor said that they expressed some hesitation after the fact (about staying tonight), but we'll let it ride and if it comes to fruition organically, great. If they ask to go to their mom's, the suggestion is that I allow it to happen. And I will. The intention still being to move in the present direction but be paying attention to what they express as well. The worker is leary of their pushback after slbeing at OP for a couple of days, so if tonight doesn't work, she has a bit of a new plan if need be.
I'm hoping we're a go, but if not, it will come, and until then, I'll have a pile of questionable baking to eat (made with smiles at home...that ain't bad ☺)
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