How would you address this in an agreement.
Mom and Dad finally sat down,and talked. Went really well. I am so happy they have reached this point in their relationship.
They put down some tentative visitation dates, which progress over the next 5 years.
One question though after the discussion on progressing summer access 2-3-4 then 5 weeks in the conversation dad mentioned that he will only have 3 weeks leave in the summer and for the rest of the summer he will only be back at his home for weekends.
It does not make sense then for Dad to have 5 weeks in the summer if he will only be home for 3 and expects his spouse to take of son all week day and night and he come home for Sat and 1/2 of Sunday. So 1 night really
he was vague on his exact plans. So Mom,wants a clause in the agreement to the effect that if Dad is not in direct overnight care of the child then the access will be limited to the actual leave period.
Not sure if I am making myself clear. but I guess we are asking,why would you take,the child for 5 weeks when you will only be there for 3?
Mom and Dad finally sat down,and talked. Went really well. I am so happy they have reached this point in their relationship.
They put down some tentative visitation dates, which progress over the next 5 years.
One question though after the discussion on progressing summer access 2-3-4 then 5 weeks in the conversation dad mentioned that he will only have 3 weeks leave in the summer and for the rest of the summer he will only be back at his home for weekends.
It does not make sense then for Dad to have 5 weeks in the summer if he will only be home for 3 and expects his spouse to take of son all week day and night and he come home for Sat and 1/2 of Sunday. So 1 night really
he was vague on his exact plans. So Mom,wants a clause in the agreement to the effect that if Dad is not in direct overnight care of the child then the access will be limited to the actual leave period.
Not sure if I am making myself clear. but I guess we are asking,why would you take,the child for 5 weeks when you will only be there for 3?
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